It's been 40 days since my last period started…

posted 3 years ago in TTC
Post # 2
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

schedule a blood test.

Post # 3
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I’m in the same boat as you and it’s sending me loopy! 

My cycle averages about 31 days and today is CD36, I don’t feel like AF is going to come any time soon but all I’m getting is BFN after BFN.  I so want to be pregnant and this state of limbo is just psychological torture! Every time i see a negative I tell myself I need to give up hope but then i found this: http://www.babycenter.com/400_has-anyone-gotten-a-bfn-after-af-was-due-and-later-gotten-a_9977014_789.bc and I can’t help but wonder.

I feel a little bit queasy all the time as of two days ago (can’t tell if I’m imagining it) and have been extra tired the last two afternoons but no breast tenderness at all like I usually get the week before AF. I have had absolutely none of my usual PMS symptoms this month. At this stage I would welcome my period so I can move on.

I don’t know what to think anymore. I don’t want to stress about it incase that puts off my period even more but the longer it goes on the harder it is to focus on anything else! 

I’m really glad you posted because I’m feeling quite alone in this. Good luck and keep us updated!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Ryansgirl:  If you go two weeks past when your period is expected then go to the doctor. Since I started tracking (we are not TTC yet) I noticed that stress plays havoc on my cycle. I went 66 days a few months ago. Try to relax and test every few days.  Good luck!

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Ryansgirl:  do you chart? Could you have ovulated late? I usually have a 30 day cycle but had a weird 102 day cycle two cycles ago. I’d say call the dr if you go past 14 days late and still no BFP. 

Post # 9
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Ryansgirl: Ah man, doesn’t it suck?! Nope, day 42 for me and nothing. I’m just going to wait and keep testing once a week. I spoke to a nurse who said she once had a patient who came up negative on urine and blood tests for FOUR months, and it turned out she was pregnant 

  • This reply was modified 2 years, 7 months ago by  Goldensweep.
Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Ryansgirl:  Damn, are you me!? I am in exactly the same situation only we are not exactly TTC yet. I am about 12 days late now but nothing coming up in tests. So weird…

Post # 11
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2010

CD45, still no period. FML.

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Goldensweep:  That is really crappy! By any chance do you know when you Od? I always know based on that if im going to have a long or short cycle. This month I Od reallly late so I knew itd be a long one.

Post # 14
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2010

phoebephoebo:  No, I can’t really chart/temp as my work means my sleep schedule is all over the place and I think it would be a pain in the butt to keep it accurate. I thought I knew based on symptoms but now I have no idea. I’ve never been late or skipped a period in my entire life! It’s been a miserable few weeks with no let-up. Plus, I wish everyone around me would stop popping out babies 😉

GrannyPantiesRock:  Oh no! Welcome to this most frustrating club. Keep us updated.

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