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Hive..this is officially my last post. I won't be checking for responses, but I felt that I wouldn't be doing justice to all of the help that I have gotten here if I didn't post something. FI and I are no longer getting married. There was no infidelity or fights...just a stubborn will that I can't seem to counter no matter what I say.
FI's cancer is back...and this time, the Dr's don't think that they can treat it. This will be the third time during our 4 and a half years together that FI has developed stomach cancer. Because this time is so much worse than other times, FI doesn't think that it's fair to me to get married and nothing I say will change his opinion. He feels he is doing what's best for me and that's that. We found out yesterday and our wedding is...was...May 14th.
I just want to thank the hive for the advice, the DIY ideas, the debates (Mike Vick anyone?), the funny stories, and all of the beautiful wedding pics that gave me so much inspiration in planning my sister's wedding that took place last year, and mine that will never take place.
When I get the strength, I have tons of stuff for sale that I will be posting some time or another. Right now I can't bear to look at any of it.
Please keep FI and I in your prayers as he gears up for the fight of his life. God Bless all of you, and I wish all of you the best.
Jamaica
I am so sorry. I hope that you are able to spend this time with him and enjoy being with him no matter how long it lasts. Our thoughts are with you.
I am so so sorry. You and your FI are in my prayers. I am wishing you both all the best in strength and love during this difficult time.
I'm so sorry. The diagnosis is still so new, I hope that once the shock wears off you two can come to a decision about this that you are both okay with. I'll keep your SO in my thoughts.
This just nearly broke my heart. Try to enjoy every minute you have left with him whether it is as husband and wife or not. Just remember he's trying to do what's best for you, he isn't trying to hurt you in any way! ((hugs))
(((Hugs))) My thoughts are with you and your SO.
I wish you and FI the best. This is such a difficult time for everyone. I am truly very sorry. Your FI is a brave man. And you are a pretty strong woman yourself who has to go through so much pain.
@JamaicaBride: I know that it says you won't be checking for replies, however being a cancer survivor myself, and having it come back 5 times, I understand why he is doing what he is doing. I know that it's hard to understand, but at some point you feel like you need to protect the one's that you love, and sometimes it's by pushing them away :/ I did this too during that period in my life. It may seem stubborn, but with everything up in the air for him, there's very few things he can control, protecting you is still one of them (even though it's not really protecting you it's more hurting you, but he isn't looking at it that way) I wish you the best and will keep you both in my thoughts.
Oh, I am so sorry. I am sending you all my good vibes.
You will be truly missed around here. :( Best of luck.
Dear JamaicaBride,
I was moved to tears reading your post. I am so sorry for the insurmountable upheaval in your life. You are in my thoughts and prayers as you tread this difficult journey.
Your Bee-friends/sisters will stand by you through thick and thin.
You are in my prayers. I know this will be a hard time but I hope the two of you enjoy your time with each other.
Lots of love and hugs being sent your way.
I am so sorry for this. I wish you and your FI the best and hope that it all works out. You will be in my thoughts!
so sad to hear about this... praying that the doctors are wrong and that he pulls through this again.
This brought tears to my eyes. I really wish you the best. I will be saying a prayer for both you.
::hugs:: I wish you and your FI the best, and sending good vibes his way that he pulls through.
I'm so sorry the two of you are going through this. You're in my thoughts and I'll send good vibes your way.
I was moved to tears reading this. I am so sorry this is happening to your family. I hope that he is able to fight it another time and that they are wrong. I wish you so much strength and try to enjoy the time with him now. Best of Luck.
I am soo sorry JB!
I can't imagine the hurt you are feeling from all sides! My thoughts are with you and I wish your SO all the best!
This brought tears to my eyes ='( I wish you the best.
oh my gosh.... i am so sorry. i cant even imagine... stay strong. and i will be praying for you and your fi. :(
So, so sorry--the thoughts and prayers of the Hive are with you and your FI. *HUGS*
I'm so sorry you're leaving, but I understand why you can't stick around. My heart really goes out to you, your Fi, and your daughter, JamiacaBride. I'll keep you in my thoughts.
I'm so sorry your family is going through this. all the best wishes, I hope you all stay strong and get through this
*hugs*
i had the same problem with my BF, he was given 3months to live, was going to die and it was "better for me" if he left and all that crap
but i think i annoyed him so much he just gave in because he knows im just as stubborn as he is! i do know though that hes coming from a good place, even if it hurts you he doesnt mean to
if ye love each other nothing else matters.
btw my guy got 3months to live 1.5years ago, hes still going strong and better than ever, never forget, theres always hope *hugs* stay strong and positive because he needs you
Oh sweetie. I don't even know what to say. I'm sorry doesn't seem to cover enough bases. What devastating heartbreaking horrible news. Like the others, I hope the doctors are wrong and that your FI pulls through this. Miracles do happen. I'm sending lots of love your way. Hold him close sweetie. xoxo :'(
I'm so sorry. :(
I know there's really not anything that anyone can say that will make you feel better but just know that we're always here if you need someone to talk to.
:-( Oh girl, I don't even know what to say. *hugs* Your entire family is in my prayers. Please don't stress about anything wedding related. Spend every day with him and just try to enjoy it.
I'm so sorry about the diagnosis. How scary :( You and your family are in my thoughts and I am thinking the best for your Fi's health!
Oh no oh no oh no! I am so so so very sorry about this. As someone who has been personally touched by cancer, I can't say I know exactly what you are going through but I do feel your pain. I am so sorry about this. I hope you and your fiance will be able to handle this. I shall never forget all the help you have given me. Both on the boards and on the pm level. I'm so so sorry.
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