(Closed) It’s best for “everyone” if I don’t get married…

posted 7 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I am so sorry.  I hope that you are able to spend this time with him and enjoy being with him no matter how long it lasts.  Our thoughts are with you.

Post # 4
Member
1335 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I am so so sorry. You and your FI are in my prayers. I am wishing you both all the best in strength and love during this difficult time.

Post # 5
Member
11327 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

I’m so sorry. The diagnosis is still so new, I hope that once the shock wears off you two can come to a decision about this that you are both okay with. I’ll keep your SO in my thoughts. 

Post # 6
Member
2114 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

(((HUG)))) My thoughts are with you , and I am sending you strength

Post # 7
Member
2237 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

This just nearly broke my heart.  Try to enjoy every minute you have left with him whether it is as husband and wife or not.  Just remember he’s trying to do what’s best for you, he isn’t trying to hurt you in any way! ((hugs))

Post # 8
Member
8738 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

(((Hugs))) My thoughts are with you and your SO.

Post # 9
Member
2321 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I wish you and FI the best. This is such a difficult time for everyone. I am truly very sorry. Your FI is a brave man. And you are a pretty strong woman yourself who has to go through so much pain.

Post # 10
Member
7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@JamaicaBride: I know that it says you won’t be checking for replies, however being a cancer survivor myself, and having it come back 5 times, I understand why he is doing what he is doing. I know that it’s hard to understand, but at some point you feel like you need to protect the one’s that you love, and sometimes it’s by pushing them away :/ I did this too during that period in my life. It may seem stubborn, but with everything up in the air for him, there’s very few things he can control, protecting you is still one of them (even though it’s not really protecting you it’s more hurting you, but he isn’t looking at it that way) I wish you the best and will keep you both in my thoughts.

Post # 11
Member
7779 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Oh, I am so sorry. I am sending you all my good vibes.

You will be truly missed around here. 🙁 Best of luck.

Post # 12
Member
64 posts
Worker bee

Dear JamaicaBride,

I was moved to tears reading your post. I am so sorry for the insurmountable upheaval in your life. You are in my thoughts and prayers as you tread this difficult journey. 

Your Bee-friends/sisters will stand by you through thick and thin. 

 

Post # 13
Member
1501 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

You are in my prayers. I know this will be a hard time but I hope the two of you enjoy your time with each other.

Lots of love and hugs being sent your way.

Post # 14
Member
2512 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I am so sorry for this. I wish you and your FI the best and hope that it all works out. You will be in my thoughts!

Post # 15
Member
2538 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I am so sorry and wish there was something more to say or do.

Post # 16
Member
9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

so sad to hear about this… praying that the doctors are wrong and that he pulls through this again.

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