Post # 1
It’s so hard planning your dream wedding when you know that you only have “x” amount of dollars and can only do it once. I change my mind about colors ever other day. I keep flipping back and forth between navy and pink, purple and black or black and white. My fiance is no help because he says “whatever will make you happy Jellybean” I got the dream guy, we want the dream wedding but we don’t have a clue what colors that might include. hehe
So who else is having issues nailing down their dream wedding because you know you can only do it once? What is your big hang up?
Post # 3
Ha, what isn’t a hang up?? 🙂 I’m usually a very decisive person, but I have been agonizing over every single wedding decision, even (especially) the little ones: do I go with flat panel invitations or pocketfolds? What color ribbon on the bouquets? Should I wear my hair up or down? It’s embarassing, but I’ve been waking up in the wee hours worrying about these types of decisions. I think it’s definitely because this the one chance I have to do it right!
I wish I had some advice for you, but at least you can know that you’re not alone!
Post # 4
Knowing I’m not alone, helps more then you could know Lilybay. My mom is ready to conk me over the head. Because I randomly go “What do you think of ___(add color here)___” She just sighs and rolls her eyes.
Post # 5
My biggest “obstacle” to the “dream wedding” has been the groom, with the caveat that he is also the best part about it haha! I naively believed the stereotypes that guys don’t care about weddings, but my FI has had an opinion on almost everything, and unfortunately, it has not often agreed with my vision. We’re working on it… So, yeah, convincing him is my big “hang up” because while it only happens once, obviously we both deserve to be as happy as possible for our day.
Everyone has their something to stress over! You’ll have a beautiful wedding in the end. 🙂
Post # 6
agreed, i’m having a hard time making a final decision on EVERYTHING!! even the small decisions… you are definitely not alone 🙂
Post # 7
Yeah, I am going to be second-guessing myself for the next year and a half on EVERYTHING (danged long engagement). You only get to do it once, and they cost SO MUCH money…and I feel like it needs to be the perfect expression of us as a couple, I don’t know about you. So, so much pressure.