ITS HERE! ITS HERE!!

posted 3 years ago in Rings
Post # 4
Member
390 posts
Helper bee

Yay, pretty! 🙂 I’m happy that you got exactly what you wanted after unfortunately losing your halo ring! You said you preferred solitaires anyway so it all worked out in the end!

Post # 6
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42546 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Jay243:  I am so sorry that you are having to deal with this. It would be a deal breaker for me.

However, if you think a doctor and a male prostitute are a perfect combination, then I guess he is the perfect guy for you.

What is he doing that is causing him to have such huge financial problems? You said he is working full time. Is he just spending more than he makes? Or does he have an addicition that is burning through his money? drugs? alcohol? gambling?

Post # 12
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1959 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@hegetsme:  Omg, that’s my mom.  She seriously comments on EVERTHING.   

I want to send her to a social media course on what not to post on fb.  For realz.

Post # 13
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391 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@hegetsme:  Yup my FIL.  My MIL isn’t actually on FB but FIL shows her everything and then she talks to me about it in person.  This I can handle.

What drives me batty is that FIL is friends with my sister on FB (who they have met/spent time with only during our wedding week) and he likes everything she posts and comments frequently on her posts too.  My ILs are quite frankly weirdly obsessed with her two kids.  I’m like husband we gotta hurry up and give them their own freaking grandkids because this is too weird.

Post # 14
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567 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@hegetsme:  I have the opposite problem I guess. My DH’s family just pretends I don’t exist half of the time. I actually had a game going. His family would only comment if it was a picture of my DH or something to do with him.

My DH thought I was full of crap so I started a tally for everytime they would do it haha. Literally I could put “My hair is on fire and the world is ending” as a status and they would only respond if I tagged my DH.

I know it’s ridiculous, but it is the little things sometimes  🙂

Post # 6
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567 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@ChellFish22:  It’s beautiful!!! It reminds me a lot of mine so I  guess I am biased. Love the sparkle 🙂

Post # 16
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4072 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

Isn’t this normal for older people on Facebook? Ha.

My mother comments on almost all my statuses, and often within minutes. And probably 1/3 of the time it doesn’t even have to do with what I posted. So annoying. I hide her from things sometimes. I also made it so she cannot read what anyone posts on my wall, as she would like and comment on that too… less it more, mom, less is more.

Post # 7
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9137 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

@Jay243:  A person who is willing to be in a committed relationship but also sleep around on the side for money is scary.  Definitely get tested and stop having unprotected sex with them for now.  With some counseling it may work out but honestly I don’t know how you come back from something like this.  Not many women are willing to pay for sex so I would assume he is being paid by men for sex.  That alone would make me concerned about a continued relationship with that person.

Also, why would he stop doing something so easy that he makes money at if he has no other options (i.e. job, selling something other than sex, ect…)?  Most people will do everything but sell their body and here’s this guy who is supposed to be committed and monogamous with you, screwing anyone who will put a few dollars in his pocket.  Ick.  I personally don’t think I would ever trust him and I certainly wouldn’t be able to have sex with them without thinking about them turning tricks for money.

I also agree with Jules that he’s probably got a drug addiction or gambling problem which needs to be addressed as well.

Post # 8
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3756 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I have had financial issues in the past, not quite that bad, but I definitely was afraid to talk about it with my FI and when it all came out it was rough but we worked through it and now I’m in the best financial shape ever all by working through it on my own. Now I never ever ever would’ve cheated on my FI to make money to get where I am today, and I am positive he would’ve left me if I did, so I’m not sure if you’ll be able to work through this one with him. But that’s entirely up to YOU, not a bunch of strangers on a random website.

I would definitely get tested too, you really never know what can happen in that type of situation.

Post # 7
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5483 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

@ChellFish22:  that looks amazing. what a find! you are so lucky!! love it.

Post # 8
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1926 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@iarebridezilla:  Ugh! My husband is a home brewer as well! I am so excited we are moving and will have more space! I am SICK of his carboys (spelling?) sitting out in the kitchen and SOMETIMES spewing!

Not to mention all the stuff it takes to COOK the beer. SO OVER IT! Lol! Especially since I am pregnant and can’t drink, and the smell of the hops is making me sick!

Post # 8
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3222 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

@ChellFish22:  glad it worked out in the end, and that you’re back to a princess solitaire. Enjoy it!

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