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    Munchy    March 11, 2012  

    Well Bees, I've just gotten back from the Dr & have officially had a miscarriage. Can't believe the low I'm in after such a high just a week ago. DH & I have been TTC for 11 months & thought this would be it. But sadly it's over & I' in the process of miscarriage. So hard as we didn't even tell anyone, not even my parents as we were waiting & now I have nobody to talk to.

    Don't have much to add but just hoping somehow we can get over this & have a successful pregnancy soon.

     
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    MLDoddie    June 2013  

    I'm so sorry that you are going through this.  I cant even imagine. 

    I'll be praying for you and your DH.

     
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    calibee79    December 23, 2011   Northern California

    i'm so sorry. ((hugs))

     
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    Miss_E_xx    March 1, 2015  

    I can't even imagine what you're going through. I'm so sorry. Definitely don't let the fact that you hadn't told anyone stop you from telling them now if you need the support xxxx

     
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    Sasha2011    July 30, 2011   Toronto

    I am really sorry for your loss. :( I hope you have better luck soon.

     
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    little_d    April 21, 2013   Vancouver- wedding on Maui

    I'm so sorry:(  *hugs hugs hugs*

     
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    Serey        Ontario

    Im so sorry Frown hugs

     
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    subtlebee    January 1, 2017  

    @Munchy:  I am so sorry for you both. I hope that you two will grow stronger as a unit through this terrible experience. Your on my prayer list for tonight and i am sending you so many good vibes!

     
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    lilbluebird    July 2012   Southern California

    I'm so sorry for your loss and my heart breaks for you.

     
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    I am terribly sorry. 

     
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    littlemisshostess    October 5, 2013   NJ

    your parents and good friends will be there for you -- just bc you didn't tell them before doesn't mean its too late. I would HIGHLY suggest letting someone else close to you know so they can help to support you and DH... even just grab a pizza and give you a shoulder to cry on or run to the pharmacy and pick up a pain killer or something

     

    I totally get why people don't tell everyone but there has to be someone besides DH that you are close and comfortable with ... your mom, sister, BFF etc?

     
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    I'm so sorry.

     
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    angelicwink    March 19, 2011   Kansas City, MO EDD Sept. 15, 2013

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Fingers crossed that you are back soon with a sticky baby!  And I agree, don't feel like it is too late to tell a friend, family member, etc. if you could use some additional support.

     
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    MrsF13    May 8, 2011  

    I'm so sorry you have to go through this.  Please know you and your DH are in my thoughts and prayers.

     
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    Major condolences your way sweetie.  Feel better soon, I am sorry you are going through this.

     
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    StaceyA    June 4, 2011   EDD November 2013

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Please reach out to someone if you need to talk, whether it's just to us bees, a friend or a parent. Everyone is here for you, but I am so so sorry ... I am sure your heart is very heavy today. Hugs xoxoxoxo 

     
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    sealevels    April 25, 2015  

    Oh goodness, I'm so sorry.

     
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    jennifer89    December 15, 2012  

    So sorry for your loss:( 

     
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    mtler    December 2011   montreal

    Hey, my heart goes out to you! I am going through the same thing at the moment. Please feel free to ask me any questions or just vent. I also haven't told many people so understand not really having many people to talk to about it. I promise you will get through this. I hope you get that sticky baby soon!!!

     
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    NicoleLyn1218    June 14, 2014  

    I'm so very sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you and your husband. Do not let the fact that you haven't told anyone deter you from telling the people you are close to, so you can get through this with enough support. If that isn't what you want to do, then that's okay too! I hope you are able to become pregnant when you are ready to try again.

     
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    iheartnerds    October 9, 2011   Massachusetts

    I'm so sorry for your loss.

     
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    Mrs. Kiwi    11/3/07   West LA

    I'm so sorry for your pain. I've had two losses back to back, and it hurts like no pain you've ever experienced. It gets easier over time, but know there will be good and bad days. There are many of us here who have experienced this, so know you're not alone.

     
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    Mrs.LemonDrop    June 4, 2011  

    I'm so sorry to hear that!

     
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    greymonkey42    November 5, 2018  

    Women normally miscarry at least once in their life.  My fiances aunt has 9 children and she would have had 6 more if it weren't for miscariages.  I know another woman who went through 7 miscarriages before she had her 1st child.  Right now you're sad and that really sucks however it doesn't mean you wont ever have a successful pregnancy.  When you and your husband are ready you can always try again.

     
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    swissbride    January 9, 2010  

    I am so sorry. Sending love and light your way.

     
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    KoiKove    October 9, 2010   Alexandria, VA

    I'm so sorry. Please tell the people around you. You'd be surprised how many woman have experienced it. I handled the MC pretty well, but the EDD-I was a wreck. My 2 close girlfriends (who both have kids now), totally understood. They both knew the EDD of their MC even though it was years ago. Knowing that I wasn't alone was very comforting.

     
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    Munchy    March 11, 2012  

    Thanks everyone for your support, it means a lot to me. Just knowing others have gone through this or know someone who has makes a difference. DH & I are going ok and just looking to the future. Hopefully it doesn't take long like this first one & our time will come soon. 

    Once again, thanks again to you all.

     
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    dodgercpkl    October 15, 2010   California

    I'm so sorry you are joining this horrible club.  *hugs*  I've lost 6 and it sucks royally. If you ever need to talk, just pm me.  Take all the time you need to heal - inside and out.  Don't let anyone tell you that you should be "over it".  The sadness will likely come in waves... that's normal, so don't feel bad for feeling good one week and horrible the next!  

    Again, I'm so sorry for your loss.  *hugs*

     
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    pmerr    August 14, 2010   Rochester, NY; EDD 9/17/13

    So sorry for your loss.

     
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    BrandNewBride    May 11, 2013   Upstate NY

    Oh my goodness. I'm so, so sorry!

     
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    aalliep    October 20, 2012   EDD 11/2/13

    I'm so very sorry

     
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    KH    October 22, 2011   Chicago

    I'm very sorry for your loss.

     
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    megz06    July 6, 2012   ND

    Very sorry for your loss. *hugs*

     
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    MrsR4ever    April 21, 2012   USA

    @Munchy:  Im so sorry about this... seding your lots of virtual hugs

     
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    FauxBoho    March 15, 2014  

    I'm so sorry honey :(

     
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    FreckledFox    October 20, 2012   NY / NJ

    i'm so sorry for your loss.  :(

     
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    PermaStudent    January 2014   Ontario

    I'm so sorry for your loss... My thoughts are with you and your DH!

     
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    RoyalLime    June 9, 2012   MI

    I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you get your sticky baby soon! FX

     

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