Post # 1
I tried to undertand the list she gave me of their family members, but some are crossed off, some are highlighted, some crossed but still highlighted?? I feel like if she sat down with her brother it would be quick work being that she knows all the names and can read him them off to him with ease, as she understands her family better than I do,and the list since it was created by her. Is that ok to ask of her?
Post # 3
I would think that your fiancé would have a pretty good handle of his own family and know who should and shouldn’t be invited.
Post # 4
I definately thing this your FI’s job to get the family names and stuff together:)
Post # 5
@punkin83: Figuring out who to invite? Or figuring out their contact info/addresses? Either way I would delegate to your FI or her. I’m having FMIL find the addresses for most of the people that she and FI have on the list (his family/church members) since he said if I have him do it he will just ask her anyways.