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posted 5 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

i dont have any advise :/  {{HUGS}}

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I am so so so so sorry for your loss. Take the time you need to grieve and be sad.

Many, many hugs to you and your DH.

Post # 5
Hostess
11174 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

While I didn’t myself experience this I just went through it with my best friend. She miscarried at eight weeks however they determined the baby had stopped growing at three weeks. It just wasn’t a healthy pregnancy unfortunately.

At first she was of course destroyed and devastated. She is 31 and while her first child was easy to have (eight years ago) getting pregnant this time around has been tough. They had been trying for nearly a year prior to this first miscarriage.

I think how long you need to wait should be between you, your DH and your doctor. My friend’s doctor recommended waiting for a cycle or two before trying again just to get your body back on track. They waited and started trying again about three to four months after the miscarriage.

I am thrilled to say that my friend is indeed pregnant now (12 weeks this week!) and the baby is seemingly healthy with a strong heartbeat. She is due in April. It was an incredibly painful and long process that took them (and me too!) through the gauntlet of emotions. I am can only wish you peace of mind and serenity about what happened this time around and the blessings of what can come with persistence. I wish you a very healthy pregnancy….this one wasn’t THE one, but it still can happen.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Country Club

MASSIVE *hugs* <3 I’m so so sorry. From one woman who has miscarried to another, I am just so sorry from the bottom of my heart.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

@Sunshine09:  HUGS!  I am so sorry.  I haven’t had a Miscarriage, but I just turned 35 and have been TTC for 9 months so I relate to some of what you are saying.  I can only imagine how devastating this is for you.  There is actually a TTC after MC support thread on here.  If you haven’t seen it yet, I’d suggest looking at that.  There are some wonderful women there who have been through what you’re going through.  I know at least one of thems is over 35.  Again, I am so very sorry.   I just realized you are posting under pregnancy and the support thread is under TTC.  Here’s a link:  http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/ttc-after-miscarriage-support-group

 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I’m so sorry. 🙁

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. You and your hubs  need to get over this before considering again and let it come naturally. I’ve had two miscarriages and you need to take the time to heal together. I cried alot, I was scared of the “next time” we would try etc.. but you just need to take one day at a time. It will get better, and don’t put yourself down and be angry, it won’t take you anywhere. I can only say this from my own experience, it’s not easy but you guys will make it through. Hugs and love along your way.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2006

God, I am so, so sorry. My heart is just breaking for you.

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

{{HUGS}} Sorry ur going thru this! Speaking from experience, having a miscarriage is a hard thing to go thru! But, things will get better, i promise. I miscarried in January of this year and got pregnant again in March. Now I’m anxiously awaiting the arrival of my baby girl in December.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I am so sorry for your loss.  ((hugs)) to you and your DH.  I started trying as soon as possible after my miscarriage, but I don’t know if I would advise that.  I know I didn’t have enough time to properly grieve my loss, and my preg with my son was much more stressful. Regardless, you and your DH are in my thoughts and prayers, and I wish you the best of luck when you decide to try again.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

First, I am so, so sorry for your loss. I had so many thoughts and emotions after my miscarriage. It was so hard on me mentally and emotionally. I found myself questioning my womanhood and my bodily abilities. I can personally attest to the fact that it does get better. Slowly, but surely. Make sure you take the time to properly grieve whether it be crying, talking with a therapist, or taking a TTC break.

As for me, I knew I wouldn’t be better until I got pregnant again. I took one cycle after the MC off (per doctor’s orders) and got pregnant the following cycle. I am now 27weeks pregnant and while I am so thankful & blessed to be pregnant again, I still think about that first little one and what could have been.

Again, I am so sorry! (Hugs)

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

I am so, so sorry to hear that you’re going through this. Cry

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I am so sorry for your loss.

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I am so so sorry, I cant even begin to understand how you feel. 🙁 

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