(Closed) It's over and I'm Devastated! Need advice plz

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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148 posts
Blushing bee

No he’s just a fuckwit. 

Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I don’t even know what to say about this…. it all sounds really juvenile and not the type of relationship I would personally want to be in.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Umm….no.  Your fiance sounds incredibly immature and hot-tempered.  I know it must hurt like crazy right now, and I can’t even imagine what you must be feeling.  But honestly, this may be for the best.  Sending good thoughts your way!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Jeez – as much as it hurts now, you’ll eventually be thankful for this turn if events. He doesn’t spun like the kind if person you’d want to spend forever with …

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

Ridiculous. 

Good riddance.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014 - 11/15/14-Vineyard

There had to have been something else going on. What you have written does not make sense. To me it just sounds like you guys are young and not emotionally mature yet on both sides. 

I have to ask. I saw your other post and you said that family and friends were not happy that you guys got engaged 3 months ago. Why is that? There seems to be something amiss with this relationship. How long have you guys been together?

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

DeannaLo:  I am sorry that it’s hurting right now, but you will be thankful soon enough. Any man that calls his fiancee a ‘slut’ is no man. It sounds like he did you a favour. 

Post # 10
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Busy bee

Sounds like you’re dodging a bullet. 

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Does not sound like either of you are ready to get married.

Devastated over that childish behavior? You should be relieved.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2024

Seriously? You are lucky you got away from that dipshit. Calling your partner slutty multiple times is NOT ok. He’s an ass.

Post # 14
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Newbee

That’s the kind of thing my first boyfriend did to me constantly. Flipping out over nothing, calling me names, but god forbid I ever get mad at HIM for a change, that wasn’t allowed. I was trapped in that abusive relationship for 4 years. Get out now, any relationship where you feel like you’re walking on eggshells is abusive IMO. Name-calling is such a red flag, it’s something I would never put up with again. Good luck, you are definitely dodging a bullet by ending things now!

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

He sounds REALLLLY insecure. He is verbally abusive, and you shouldn’t go back to him if he opens that door. 

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