It's OVER. Lying, cheating scumbag husband

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Im so sorry!! That is terrible 🙁    (((HUGS)))

Post # 4
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Sugar bee

@Pomapoo:  what a scumbag, I’m so sorry. All I can say is that you’re still young and lucky you found out now rather than 20 years from now!

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Fack. I am SO sad/pissed/disgusted for you.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I don’t know how justice works over there, but can’t you ask for some kind of protection if you fear he might crash into your house?

I’m so sorry to hear such a heartbreaking story… As others have said, better to have found out now. You are still young to start a new life!

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Total JERK!!! Your husband has no right to terrorize you any further! if you’re afraid, is there anyone who you can stay with for a little while? where is your husband staying? I’m so sorry you are going through this Hugs to you

Post # 10
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

(((huge hugs))) I am so sorry. Be strong and I’m glad your friends and family are standing with you. If he has made threats, get a restraining order.

Lots of people meet their love in late 20s or later. My BFF started dating first 1st husband at 18, married at 21, and was cheated on at 26. She had to be single again too, and has gone on to be happily remarried and 2 kids with her 2nd husband.

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Pomapoo:  You’re not an idiot honey! I wanna bitch slap your husband On your behalf! listen, I married young the first time, my ex husband traveled also. I found out he was having an affair with a 50 year old woman while I was 9mos preggo. I gave him a chance but could never really get over it. It eventually got to the point where I was disgusted by the sight of him….and we divorced. I was 28 at the time. I recently got remarried to a man that treats me like a princess! It’s ok to cry, still have feelings for your husband etc. but be confident that you deserve an honest, faithful partner! Trust me, you will get through this and when you’re over him, I hope you meet someone that will sweep you off your feet! 

Post # 13
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Busy bee

OP, sounds like you did everything you could be be a loving wife and he obviously did not value it.  You must be hurting so much now but you are young, and you have so much time to build yourself up and to find someone along the line who trully deserves you and love and respect you.  Sorry.  I’m glad to hear your friends are staying with you.

And when he comes crawling back, be strong.  He’ll do it again given the chance.

 

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - Creek club at ion, SC

🙁 be strong

Post # 15
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Busy bee

@Pomapoo:  you’re not an idiot Hun! Someone you love and trusted betrayed you, you can’t just instantly turn off those feelings of love and not give a toss about him. It’s completley understandable. It’s going to be a tough road ahead, but you have absolutely done the right thing by asking him to leave. I’m glad you have people staying with you and aren’t alone. Just remember you are amazing and deserve so much better than the way he was treating you. Huge hugs xx

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Pomapoo:  I am so sorry.  What a jerk!!  I know you don’t think so right at the moment, but you will be better off without him!!  You are still young, you will find someone who will treat you better……and love you for who you are!!

So very sorry.  HUGS

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