It's probably not going to happen this year…

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
4483 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

I was hoping for 2012, so I get what you{re feeling. It’s tough to have to wait! It sounds like it should happen for you within a year though, and that’s something. With my SO, the assurance that it would happen, although not in my timing, helped a lot


Post # 4
1178 posts
Bumble bee

@emmrr3:  Is he trying to save money for a ring? What makes you so sure not this year?

Post # 6
1157 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Don’t worry. The year just started and we are already in August!! The year would be finished in no time!! Plus, anything can happen when you least expect it. I have a feeling we are both in the same boat with the next year thing.

Post # 7
328 posts
Helper bee

@emmrr3:  *hugs* I’m sorry.  Don’t be discouraged.  How far away do you think you are from being able to look at houses?  At the very least, maybe you could start discussing where you want to look (neighboorhoods and such), just rough, big picture details.  At least that would be something.  I completely empathize.

Post # 8
373 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

I sympathize completely. I’ve been realizing I’m kind of in the same situation; probably no proposal until next summer. 

Post # 9
4941 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@emmrr3:  Awe, chin up honey! Don’t be too discouraged, you never know what he has up his sleeve! 🙂

Just look forward to when it does happen, it will be absolutely perfect and every waiting moment will have been worth it. I promise. 🙂

Post # 10
1460 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

I just got told by BF that it won’t be happening this year, so I know your pain. Even though I’d already worked it out it hurts having that sliver of hope snatched away from you, hurr.


I’m sure your engagement won’t be too horribly far away ^^ and maybe your boy really will pull something out of the bag for you (wish I could tell myself the same thing haha). Hope you feel better soon!

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