It's stupid but I got pulled into a Facebook fight. Help?

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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1184 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

I love how everyone adds “lol” to pretend they aren’t being snarky.

 

I’d just end it.  You aren’t 12.  You don’t need the last word.

Post # 4
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414 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@LadyBlackheart: Can you not just delete the original post? It’s not vital information that you posted in the first place.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@LadyBlackheart:  She is coming off as kind of a b****. I think you should delete it if you want to.

Post # 6
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7286 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Stop responding and trying to have the last word. She recalls it differantly, move on. 

Post # 7
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753 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

How was it an accident? u didnt mean to type it up? 

delete it.. like PP said youre not 12

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

@stuckinwonderland:  Yeah!  Lotta lols… lol.

I agree though, just stop responding… your friend’s being pretty silly, no reason for her to be taking things this far but doesn’t look like you’re going to get anywhere by continuing the conversation.

Post # 9
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

I think you could conclude by saying:

“Crystal, if I had hit a man, and if he had been injured, I think both I and my insurance company would have a detailed record of such an incident occurring. It did not. It’s very possible that you may be confusing this with something that someone else may have told you about another incident that happened to another person and that the two stories may be merging together in your memory. However, I can assure you that this is not what happened in my case, and I honestly think that it’s pointless for us to keep going around in circles with this discussion. On a more positive note, I really hope that you have a great rest of your day and a wonderful weekend. :)”

How’s that?  And, if she responds negatively from there, I would simply ignore it.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I would just delete it..

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

It’s all the snarky ‘lolling’ that would do my head in!

Seriously I think you should just delete the whole conversation. If she asks why tell her that it was beginning to make both of you look like buffoons so you are saving her from this positively bottomless hole that you’ve accidentally both been digging. If she tries to raise the argument separately in a FB status just ignore it. She’ll be the silly one.

ETA: Don’t even bother with an explanation before deleting the conversation either. She’ll just seize on it like a terrier with a rat.

 

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@LadyBlackheart:  She “remembers better than you think”…lol. She couldn’t even remember who was in the hospital when you told her the story. She is just making herself look dumb. Don’t continue it. I would just give the “thumbs up!” For my last response. 

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@LadyBlackheart:  don’t respond again. You already gave a line that says how you don’t want to continue.

Post # 14
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2851 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

“Ok I hit him, I laughed about it too; actually, I wanted to hit him… Always hated that guy…You were right allll along :(“

Ha! JK…. Yes delete the post.

 

Post # 16
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Seriously, is “you” that hard to type? Ugh I hate that.

I would just delete the whole thing if it bothers you that much.

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