It's time to spice things up and melt this snow, y'all!!

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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4440 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

You know what it probably is? A mix in your routine.  It seems like you were in a regular routine lifestyle and things can get boring that way….if you change it up just in the slightest…that sets the bar for many amazing things to come 😉

 

Post # 5
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573 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

YEP. Changing it up is the way to go. Lately all FI has had to do is just kiss me real passionately and I’m ready to go! 

My MOH actually just bought me a toy – kinda as a wedding gag gift, but FI thinks it’s totally hot to use it on me. That REALLY helped!

Post # 7
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573 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

HAHAHA we should swap usernames because I am totally doing the burlap and lace theme! Everything in my house is Shabby Chic though, poor FI. The only reason i didn’t it for the wedding is because I didn’t want to get tired of it!

I don’t have any pics on me right now, but I am using a bunch of lace doilies that my mom has collected over the years to give it that shabby chic feel. When I made my centerpeices, I filled the vases with burlap material before putting the flowers in there. Basically its a;; shades of green and the woodsy burlap and lace stuff. They look similiar to the pic below:

 

Post # 8
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1107 posts
Bumble bee

OP, I think that what you experienced this past weekend is totally normal. My husband and I go through the same thing. Usually we have sex really regularly, but then sometimes we’ll go a whole week without having it. We both get tired, stressed out, too busy, etc. Everything you’re saying! But I think that’s normal. Because we still (like you) have the times where we’ll do it 2 or 3 times in a weekend (or even in one day…hehe) because we’re just more in-sync than usual. A lot of people get around this by PLANNING when to have sex, but I just can’t get into that. It feels like a business meeting and not a spontaeous, sexy, fun time. So I’m totally fine with our “life rhythm” that ebs and flows. Summertime is always better…more daylight = more energy. 😉

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