I've been a good bride…but the 'zilla might come out soon!(VENT)

posted 3 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
5460 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Don’t stress 🙂  If he shows up in the tux, great.  If not, whatever.  The wedding party has pretty much three responsibilities:

1-show up on time

2-show up clean and at least halfway sober


ETA- I meant to further state that if he fails to meet any one of the three requirements, then he is obviously taking himself out of the wedding party.  There’s not a lot you can do about it at this point.  I hope everything works out and nobody gets you all stressed out on your wedding day!




Post # 4
8677 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

I am just going to say that even though someone works, their money could be “spent” before they even get their checks. Things come up, there are a lot more important things to pay off than a tuxedo.

Post # 5
1243 posts
Bumble bee

If he doesn’t show up in his tux, he has removed himself from the wedding party. End of story, but not the end of the world.

While it is frustrating, you never know the details of someone else’s finances.  Take a deep breath, remember what is truly important about the day, and let it go.

Post # 6
3570 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

What a jackass.  Don’t be texting the bride a week before her wedding about how you couldn’t get your bullshit together

Post # 7
7654 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

If he doesn’t show up in the proper attire, then he needs to go. Everyone has other things to spend their money on, but if he knew he wouldn’t have the money, he should have told you sooner than 3 days before the wedding day. That’s low.

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