(Closed) I’m going to fail the Christmas Challenge tonight. On purpose… Maybe?

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
476 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Go with your heart. That’s all I can tell you. You know, I made a really difficult decision about the future of my relationship with my SO and he stepped up to the plate when I needed to. If you need to have that talk, for you, then do it. I know things are great, and you are probably worried about “rocking the boat”, but you also need to realize you have a right to know – point out his inconsistent statements – read his body language and his eyes… not just what he says.

That’s my 2 â‚µ (cents!) 🙂

Post # 4
806 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I would suggest just having an honest discussion with him about what he wants and his thoughts on the timing.  You don’t have to wait until you know about the move to have that talk.

Honestly – I’d drop the Oct 2011 plan, and just let it go.  It doesn’t sound like a proposal is imminent and it’s putting this artificial pressure on you when he hasn’t asked yet.  You can pick a date after he’s asked – otherwise, it doesn’t mean much if you don’t consider yourselves engaged yet.  I would focus your energies on getting him to propose (as much as you can impact that, lol) – worry about the wedding later.

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