(Closed) I’ve never had a negative experience at a strip club

posted 7 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Is it really stripper month? gross. lol

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

ha neither have i!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@MandaMack: and have you seen them swing around that pole! omg! craziness! for me its more entertaining than anything.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

I once saw a stripper who was smoking while upside down spinning around the pole. Talk about talent. But I have never seen or heard of anything scandalous going on at a stripclub, and I have had a friend and an aquaintance work at two separate clubs downtown.

I feel bad for anyone who has had a negative experience, but I agree, it is the exception but not the norm.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

This might be the funniest thread title ever.

Post # 11
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Helper bee

This again??  Seriously…

ETA:  I have also never had a negative strip club experience but I don’t see the need to keep bringing it up.  Weddingbee isn’t going to agree.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

This is just what I was talking to FI about! I come back from reading 4 pages of bad stripper comments and here is this little gem. FI says I can’t say anything bad about strippers because I have fun while I’m there. I am all for sitting next to the stage and tucking dollars with FI and our guy friends, especially if the stripper knows how to put on a good show.

You know what I can’t stand though? I can’t stand when some of the guys bring their girlfriends or wives because then they act like what they normally do is bad or they sit back in a corner with her all night. I’m the only lady in our group who would go up and sit by the stage until recently when I talked one guy’s wife into sitting up there with me. It just bums me out because I feel like they, the guy and girl, aren’t having as much fun. Not that I don’t like hanging out with the couples, but dang it I want them to have fun!

Also, I agree lap dances are awkward. I never know what to do with my hands lol

EDIT: I will say my one negative stripper thing would be the purring/vibrating thing they do. I’m always like seriously? and then I laugh.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@MandaMack: I think the most poignant thing you posted on another thread is that most guys don’t see the gross antics of strippers as sexy. There’s much more of “Ew, can you believe what she did with that ___ ?” than “Did you see what she did? I want to sleep with her.” So true!

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I never knew strip clubs were a hot button topic.  I thought, either you let ‘im go or you dont.  My friends talk about it amonst eachother and we all have different opinions but its only our guy that we have to worry about right?

I have been to one strip club and it seemed “classy” if you can use that word. haha.  It seemed to be on the up and up.  It was all fun and games until a stripper shoved her crotch in my face.  Super akward for me.  eeekk! @reinab505 What do I do with my hands?

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I can appreciate that you and many other people have never had a negative experience, but I feel compelled to share as well:

My roommate in college was a stripper, and she would tell me all sorts of stories– some funny, some gross, but all across the board. Assuming for a minute that nothing negative happens, here are some of the things she told me:

-Almost every stripper would hug/kiss all the guys that tipped her once she left the stage. Maybe that’s not a big deal for some girls, but it makes me sick to think of another woman hugging my fiance’ while in her underwear(or less)

-She made out with A LOT of bachelors. Most guys would go with the best intentions of doing nothing, but the facts are, that once they get wasted and their friends cajole them into the VIP room, many of the strippers are drunk as well, so…things get out of control. Fast.

-While it is true the guys “aren’t allowed” to touch the strippers, a bouncer can only look so many places at once, and hands wandered. Additionally, strippers were free to touch the customers…so lots of breasts got rubbed in guys’ faces, or they’d grind on their crotches while the bouncer wasn’t watching.

-A lot of guys wouldn’t touch the strippers at all, wouldn’t get a VIP. However, that didn’t mean that they didn’t get drawn into conversations with strippers, get their numbers…and we all know where that could lead.

the reality is that strippers are there to make money, and a lot of them have bad relationships and other problems. A good guy is going to feel sorry for some poor girl who’s whining about how bad her boyfriend treats her, and that’s how a lot of the girls made “customers” out of guys just there for a one night thing. It might just be giving her a little money so she can make rent, or going out of his way to help her out.

The biggest thing I learned from living with that girl is that strip clubs are absolutely POISON for relationships…..even if “nothing happens”.

I didn’t share all of that to scare anyone, but wanted to give you another, real perspective on what goes on….even when nothing too terrible happens.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

@angiexox: Well most of the time I’ll keep them by my sides, but there have been times when I’ve touched a stripper. OMG I know. One time was when we were having a conversation about our boobs while she was sitting on my lap I put my hands on her waist because she was leaning back and I didn’t want her to fall. lol She was very nice and very jealous that mine are bigger than hers.

I’ve also helped a stripper up who fell off the stage. The guys think it’s so funny when I do this stuff, I think they enjoy it more than the actually stripping.

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