(Closed) Japan! Why do you have to do this to me!!!??!

posted 7 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
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489 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

What does your FI think about it?  You seem pretty set on the idea that if he got accepted to give the presentation he would choose that over a wedding.  It seemed like there were possible other options apart from the Japan one.  I think “i’m getting married’ is a fairly good excuse to turn down a speaking event.  But if you’re both set on his going I think changing the date makes the most sense. 

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

make sure you check with all of your vendors and calculate how much you could lose in deposits, their availability, and other vendors available if yours are booked in july.

there will be other opportunities to go to japan, but only one wedding. personally, i wouldn’t move my date just for a free trip.

Post # 7
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489 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Sounds like its fairly easy to change the date then.  I’m sure that in time you’d be just as attached to a July date as your August date 🙂

 

 

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