(Closed) Jealous FI?

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
7199 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

@SY:  My Fiance would say “Okay! Have fun. Wanna grab dinner later?”

Fiance and I have discussed this and he told me he thinks of dinner as a date and thinks it might be a little weird but he said he doesn’t mind breakfast or lunch at all. After further discussion he agreed that sometimes lunch just won’t work and dinner is okay too (as long as it’s not a “romantic” place).

Post # 4
3886 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

He wouldn’t mind. He wouldn’t (and doesn’t) mind even if I have dinner or drinks with a male friend. 


Post # 5
4794 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2019

It’d depend on the guy I was meeting up with. If it was the guy I thought I was going to marry in at one point of my life, he’d have an issue with it. If it was my high school best friend (who happens to be male), then he’d be okay with it and would tell me to have a good time. 

Post # 6
1671 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Church

@SY:  He wouldn’t have a problem at all if it is someone he knows. If it is someone he hasn’t met he would be fine but ask questions. I don’t see the problem unless he feels that he has a reason to be jealous … Even so, he should really keep it in check.

Post # 7
7420 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

“What time are gonna get home? and make sure you bring me something to eat!”

Post # 8
9073 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

If it were me going out, he’d say “Don’t die and have fun.”

If it were him going out, I’d say “Don’t bring home hookers. Have fun.”

Post # 9
2254 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

“Ok. Have fun. Be sure not to get lost.”

Darling Husband doesn’t mind when I hang out with my male friends. He trusts me as I trust him.

Post # 10
317 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

He wouldn’t like it.

Post # 11
1081 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

It would depend on the guy- if it was someone he has heard of before he wouldn’t mind at all! If I said I am going out with some random guy he has never heard of he would probbaly ask a few more questions but would not stop me from going. 

Post # 12
7234 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

@SY:  My SO doesn’t care who I have breakfast with. Then…. that’s probably because I don’t keep in contact with single men who are possibly interested in me. I would guess that there is something making your Fiance uncomfortable beyond just the gender of your friend. 

Post # 13
706 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

My Darling Husband would probably say something like “tell your boyfriend i said hello.”

If he were going out, it’d probably sound like “didn’t you just see your girlfriend yesterday?”

Post # 14
556 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@SY:  My boyfriend is a little jealous because I’m in a engineering course and almost all my friends are guys. If I said something like that he probably wouldn’t be happy and would make a “face”, but I would kiss him and snugg him and tell him I love HIM, and he would let it go 😛

Post # 16
1572 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Totally depends on teh guy. I have a ton of guy friends, and regularly hang out w/ a few of them w/o my partner. there is at least one guy he wouldn’t love me hanging out w/ alone. One in particular, he wouldn’t tell me to skip hanging out… but he wouldn’t be pleased. honestly, I get why he’s jealous and unsure. The last time the guy was in town, a group hung out and he seemed okay w/ it.

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