- Blog
- Bios
- Boards
- Classifieds
- DIY
- Gallery
- Vendor Reviews
- Shop Weddingbee
Weddingbee boards
i really hope it isnt true, they seemd to make a really good couple. i feel really bad fo rher if it is true, i cant imagine having that happen and then having it broadcasted on every news station. hope that its just a rumor
I hate hearing these stories. Can't even think about it! But since they are celebrities, I bet the opposite sex is through themseleves at them. Jesse James is a good looking man so I am sure some floozy pounced on him and he was too insecure to say no.
Oh I'm so mad right now over this. I love Sandra Bullock, she's one of my favorite actresses. Plus, all the sweet things she said about him in her interview and then when she received her Oscar and him saying she "takes his breath away," makes me want to strangle him. I've hoped this isn't true and just a rumor started after her winning, but I read she moved out and canceled her appearence in Europe for "The Blind Side" so I think it's unfortuantely the real deal.
As for me I don't really let myself have "what if" thoughts because it would upset me too much. I never thought my parents would get divorced, ever, and they did. I think you can only do what you can and work at the marriage and hope things work out for the best. Just never know what someone will do though--they say you never really know someone even though you think you do. Not sure if I agree with that completely, but I do think some people just change, even after many years of being together, and it just doesn't work anymore.
He's already issued an apology so I'm sure it's true.
I do feel bad for her because she seems so lovely and like a genuinely nice person. She's also one of my fave. actresses. I hope she pulls through all this garbage.
Sandra Bullock is a fantastic actress and has such a strong & individualistic personality. I hope for her sake it isn't true, but if it is, depending on what she decides to do about their relationship I'm certain she can and will be triumphant over this.
Sandra - I know you'll never read this but you are awesome!!!
ARGH, this made me so sad and shocked!!!!! I really can't believe it, I loved them as a couple and they seemed so happy and in love...I know it's bizarre bc I don't actually know them but I was pretty shaken after hearing that...It's sort of like, well, if it could happen to them, who else could it happen to, ya heard? Siiiiiigh....
say it isn't so!!!!!! i really hope that is not true... she is also one of my favs.
I hope it isn't true! I know what you mean, all the cheating is ridiculous! Why can't people just love the one their with!
I love her and feel terrible this is happening. She is one of those celebrities who always kept her private life private and that is so admirable (since everyone seems to try to stay in the spotlight by any means possible). She doesn't deserve this if it is true :(
My jaw is still in dropped mode!
I just read his apology. I understand that a normal relationship/marriage can have its trials and tribulations. But geez have some respect! If you are not happy in the relationship and there is no way to fix things then have the decency to end it. I lose respect for these people. I don't feel bad at all when the "dirty laundry" is aired! I feel for the victims as in Sandra and the children.
I've always been weirded out by them as a couple. I mean, Sandra Bullock married to some motorcycle dude who's been married twice before, once to a porn star?
In any event, if it's true, it's a shame. I think I'm more shocked over Kate Winslet and Sam Mendes.
I'm sorry for her, infidelity is never excusable, but this isn't that surprising to me. The woman he cheated on her with looks exactly like the other women he was married to. I never really understood them as a couple.
Does anyone else find that these stories are much more affecting now that you're getting married. I never used to give them much thought. Now they weigh on me.
am just so sick and tired of these men betraying there wives.what do the think we dont get hit on..?granted no man will remove his undies and throw at us..lol but still their are temptations out there for woman.it does make one wonder if it could happen to them.i for one think nothing is passed anyone..sad but true.
all we can do is hope our SO are immune.
yeah I think the whole part where he married a porn star before her may have been a big red flag...
I never did understand them as a couple. His ex is a porn star and this women is also the same. I didn't see them lasting very long anyways.
There ARE things you can do..learn how to have great boundaries and let your H or SO know that there are things you will not accept in your marriage and not stand for. I know this, as my xh cheated on me.
I love Sandra Bullock too. She's so cute and always seems so sweet and heck, she helped raise her H's daughter too.
It makes me sick to my stomach thinking this happened to her. But then again neither brains or looks or wealth can make anybody do anything at all.
What I've done is read books with my FI from Dr. Willard/Steve Harley (dad/son) who built marriagebuilders. Their books are great at building solid marriages and affair-proofing them too. I learned from my previous experience with my xh, that you have to let your spouse know in no uncertain terms that you expect fidelity and will expect nothing less.
Do I worry about him cheating? Nope. We both are really firm on this one. But we've worked on this very issue and know where we stand 100 percent.
I wish her nothing but the best and definitely hope that those rumors are not true.
@belle...well said!
I really hope it isn't true, I wouldn't wish that upon her or anyone else!
I am very blessed to have an extremely trustworthy guy, and not a "player" by any means
I feel so bad for her! or anyone in that situation but she has to deal with it in front of the world! Shame on him and that nasty trash he cheated with!!
This must have rocked her world! She seriously adored him... I watched the Barbara Walters Special w/ her where she said "No ones ever had my back, except Jesse". I feel so terrible for her. She seems like the type of woman everyone wants to know! She's down to earth & a total sweetheart!
Men cheat for various reasons & it usually has little to do with looks! A lot of the times they cheat because they feel they are missing something or they want to feel more like a man. In NO WAY do I condone his infidelity, but it can't be easy being "Mister Sandra Bullock". I remember watching him on The Apprentice (yeah, yeah I know!) & everyone was always busting on him & bringing her up... he always looked uncomfortable!!
Maybe if my guy was a celebrity I'd be more concerned! Celebs just don't have good track records unfortunately. I really like Sandra Bullock, though, and hope this is just a big stupid tabloid thing.
Did anyone hear about Kate Winslet and Sam Mendes separating? There might be something to this whole "best actress oscar curse" afterall...
If you truly love your spouse, you will make your marriage work. Unfortunately, I think that all the fame and fortune in Hollywood make for an invincibile feeling in people, as we saw with Tiger Woods. My parents have been through a lot, but have always stuck by each other. Now, they are closer than ever. I always wanted that in my future husband, and I found it. We have been through hell and back, and have only grown stronger because of it. We have talked a lot about what we want out of our relationship, so that there are no surprises down the road.
@Ottawabride - it may be that the men feel intimidated to have such a powerful SO, so they pull away because they feel inferior. That can happen with insecure men, and would make sense in Kate Winslet's case
One thing I cant wrap my mind around is what a kinky guy he is..which makes her what ?..ok I'm in a dirty minded mood slap me.
Poor girl. She was really blindsided by the whole thing I think. It was sad how she was portraying him to be her rock and having her back and now it turns out he was being shady behind her back. She must be so humiliated. And he's such an idiot! She seems like she's been the best to thing to him. I wish her the best, I don't know what I would do in that situation.
The girl he had an affair with isn't even attractive! I mean, not that an attractive girl is an excuse for an affair, but she is scary looking! And I love tattoos! But she is like....icky. Especially that picture of her dressed up as a Nazi.
I feel terrible for Sandra Bullock too. I feel like she's such a good person (not that I personally know her...but she just seems to keep to herself and is very humble). I liked that she really tried to help him with his custody battle and tried to provide a solid home for his kids, and then he goes and does this. And I also saw those photos of her and it just disgusts me that he would pick someone like that over his marriage. Ick.
Not many Hollywood marriages last. I knew that these 2 were doomed when I first heard they were married. This is not at all surprising to me. He's always seemed like a creep!
Hmmmm. I saw him near the Long Beach aquarium yesterday out for a ride with a girl on the back. I thought it was Sandra but now I am wondering if it was somebody else!
Fwiw, when my ex cheated (food for thought here and maybe discussion) it was after his company moved to a larger city (ATL) and suddenly his newfound success as a ceo went to his head. Enter cute guy, successful, early 30's, biig city = imho recipe for marital disaster. What really freaked me out is there are women out there (men too, yes) who will see an attractive, successful person and go after them married or not. It matters not to some of these people today at all.
What bothers me today is how infidelity is just swept under the rug. How it's somehow downgraded to an "underlying problem in the marriage" or something like that. Sometimes it's because people don't have boundaries or are bombarded daily by temptations and think they can do whatever they want simply because they can. Not because their marriage is in trouble or there's a problem, but just because they can. That's why my ex cheated. He simply never thought I'd find out.
They say she moved out monday btw. I am so sad for her. It should have been the happiest time ever. Her first oscar. Being a stay at home mom surrounded by her stepkids. She seemed really happy. I've been a big SB fan for quite some time btw. Hated to see this go down.
And yes...the other woman is skanky. I mean seriously..what's with the nazi getup? Ewwwww!
Honestly Hollywood is such a different beast all together. Half the time I read about people "breaking up" then I hear stories from friends in the business that it was part of their contract (yes that's right, people here actually have contracts when they get married) that one of them gets to "look good" in the break up and one of them doesn't. Not saying that this is the case with Sandra and Jesse but there are plenty of PR machines and half the time and we as the public have no idea what's really going on. There are also cases (I know of one major major much much older rockstar this happened with) where the women make aggreements and say hey do what you want but if you get caught all bets are off. It's such a fascinating place to live . . . totally twisted and messed up but fascinating! I was born here and it's still shocking to me, even after all this time.
sad such a beautiful person has to be put through the evil eye of our media machine...like the news of what her husband has done isn't horrible enough :(
II think Jesse James is so stupid for having done that to her! She's seemed to be so our of his league and he braught her down from her Oscar high! Have you guys seen photos of that skank he cheated with? Sandra Bullok is sooo much better looking and classier than this girl. Why do people purpsely ruin good things?
You must log in to post.
| Visit our sister sites | eHarmony Online Dating |
eHarmony Advice Dating Advice |
Project Wedding Wedding Songs |
JustMommies Pregnancy Calendar |
Create the honeymoon of your dreams.
| User | Posts Today |
|---|---|
| Lyndzo | 46 |
| Brielle | 37 |
| AshleyR83 | 30 |
| mypinkshoes | 28 |
| rebwana | 26 |
| funkymunky85 | 26 |
| fivemonthsnotice | 26 |
| Cady | 25 |
| beargoose | 24 |
| his chippymunk | 24 |
| User | Posts Today |
|---|---|
| tenacity | 4 |
| imageeksowhat | 3 |
| Cady | 3 |
| Ms Flamenco | 3 |
| keepsmiling19 | 2 |
| Sasha2011 | 2 |
| This Time Round | 2 |
| ladybugmommy2010 | 2 |
| mightywombat | 1 |
| vmec | 1 |
I know it's the age of information. But my goodness, all of the infidelity being highlighted as of late makes me wonder!
Does anyone else feel weird about all of these stories? Sometimes it makes me wonder, "what if.."
I don't know what I would do. I would be absolutely devastated if this happened to me.