Parasol in Boston?
more by BostonBrideToBe
Restaurant wedding logistics
Parents standing under the chuppah?
more in Jewish
Colored kippot? Bad idea?
When are you giving your FH your Boudoir Photos?
more in Boards
Are these seating arrangement ideas okay

Jewish ceremony video examples?

posted 1 year ago in Jewish
  •  
    1.
    Member Icon
    Member
    230 posts
    Helper bee
    BostonBrideToBe    September 5, 2010   Boston, MA

    Hey Jewish board,

    As conservative Jews, my fiancé and I are incorporating several ceremony traditions that I've never seen happen in person or simply don't remember how they happen at a Jewish ceremony.  Specifically, I'm wondering about the flower of the bride circling the groom, being wrapped in a tallis for a blessing, and when the first kiss is (before stepping on the glass or after?).  Our Rabbi is wonderful, but a bit more, um, easy going than I am, as I like to know how things are going to happen.  I thinking seeing examples of how these have worked in other ceremonies would help me wrap my mind around them, however my YouTube searches haven't been very fruitful yet.  Anyone know of good videos online anywhere of full Jewish ceremonies?

    Thanks in advance!

     
    2.
    Member
    6,643 posts
    Bee Keeper
    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    i don't have a video from our wedding or know of any, but have you seen fiddler on the roof? the oldest daughter gets married and they show a lot of the traditions. plus it's a good movie!

     
    3.
    Member
    6,643 posts
    Bee Keeper
    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    Here's the video from fidler on the roof. Obviously it's old fashioned, but it can give you an idea.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aglgcKj4W0Q

     
    4.
    Bee Icon
    Bee
    2,098 posts
    Buzzing bee
    hotcocoa      

    I don't have a truncated video of our ceremony, but you could probably get the order from our programs: http://doublyhappytoo.blogspot.com/2009/05/our-chewish-programs-text.html

    Also, Anita Diamant's "The New Jewish Wedding" is an invaluable resource -- it has a ton of info on the order and meaning of various rituals.  I give a copy of it to every Jewish engaged couple!

    As for the specific rituals you mention, the circling happens right as you reach the chuppah -- you can do it the traditional way, with only the bride circling the groom, or the egalitarian way, with the groom circling the bride as well or both bride and groom circling each other.  The wrapping with the tallis can happen right after the circling, though Anita Diamant has a few other suggestions.  The kiss happens after the breaking of the glass.

    HTH!

     

    Reply

    You must log in to post.





    Visit our sister sites eHarmony
    Online Dating
    eHarmony Advice
    Dating Advice
    Project Wedding
    Wedding Songs
    JustMommies
    Pregnancy Calendar
    Copyright 2004-2012, Weddingbee.com
     

    Find your vendors on Weddingbee

    Real reviews from brides in your area!

    Favors by Weddingbee

    • Favors by season

    Shop Now ยป

    Find Registry Find Registry Find Registry

    More
    User Posts Today
    Lyndzo 46
    Brielle 37
    AshleyR83 30
    mypinkshoes 28
    rebwana 26
    funkymunky85 26
    fivemonthsnotice 26
    Cady 25
    beargoose 24
    his chippymunk 24

    Jewish


    Sorry, there are no users yet.


    More