Post # 1
I’m curious how often everyone gets to spend time with their SO, especially in this crazy, busy fast-paced world! I’ll start off by saying in an average week its around 4-5 times. However, when he is busy at work, it drops down to 1x per week or less.
Post # 3
@LindyLu: Even though we live together it’s a priority for him that we see each other a lot. Like, if either of us is going away for a few days we make sure to spend extra time together beforehand.
Post # 4
We live in different states, so we only get weekends together. So, once a week? But we spend Friday night-early, early Monday morning together.
Post # 5
We see each other on weekends and once during the week.
Post # 6
We don’t live together, but he lives 20 miles down the road, and will be moving in in 3 months. He gets here friday night about 7-8PM, stays till the same time Sunday evening, and also spends wednesday nights here. So we’re seeing each other 5 days out of the week which is pretty great, even if thursday mornings barely count. Monday and Tuesday are the only days we don’t see each other.
Post # 7
1-3 x a week. I wish we could live together 🙁
Post # 8
We hang out on Tuesdays, Thursdays, Friday & Saturday afternoons/evenings, and then Sunday mornings.
It’s a good mix of together and alone time.
Post # 9
We see each other Tuesday, Wednesday and Friday OR Saturday nights which are the nights that I don’t have my kids but every other week he has his son so we don’t get alone time. He lives 30 minutes from me so it makes it challenging if I forget something or I have errands. I wish we could move in together but with the kids doesn’t seem right for us before marriage (no judging anyone who chooses to do that though!). So we have at least 2 more long years of doing it this way.
Post # 10
We live together I see him everyday
Post # 11
@Omgbunnies: We can’t live together either because of a dog thing. But it makes me appreciate our time together.
Post # 12
I see him on average of 4-6 times per week and we spend the night together every time we see each other, so that’s nice. We would like to move in together soon, but I told him no living together before engagement (not a religious thing, obviously if we’re spending the night together lol, just an I don’t want to get stuck in a “playing house” thing that I’ve seen happen a lot)
Post # 13
Every day – we live together. It’s the best, especially two years of living on separate continents and only seeing each other twice a year!
Post # 14
I didn’t vote because we live together but don’t really see each other every day. We have very different schedules – I work 8:00-5:00 and sometimes later, he works 2:00 – 11:00pm. So, when I wake up and go to work he’s still asleep and when he gets home from work I’m already in bed. I guess we see eachother, but the other is fast asleep – so it’s not quality time or anything.
Luckily, his schedule changes next week! For the first time in five years we’ll have a similar schedule – I’m not sure what we’ll do!
Post # 15
We live together but we work opposite shifts so we don’t get nearly as much time together as we would like. Like this morning he got home from work, came in the door and handed me the keys and I was out the door to work before it even closed from him coming in. So we may technically see each other every other day but as far as real quality time together or as a family(I have a 4 year old) it only happens 2-3 times a week if that.
Post # 16
We live together and work together. We try to keep out of eachothers space throughout the day, but its hard. Two years of this, no killing each other, yet!