(Closed) JFF: How often do you see your SO?

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: How often do you see your SO?
    Every day, we live together : (72 votes)
    59 %
    Every day, but we don't live together : (11 votes)
    9 %
    4-6 times per week : (13 votes)
    11 %
    1-3 times per week : (17 votes)
    14 %
    3-4 times per month : (1 votes)
    1 %
    Less than 3x per month : (2 votes)
    2 %
    Rarely, we are LDR, etc. : (5 votes)
    4 %
    Other, I'll let you know below : (2 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @LindyLu: Even though we live together it’s a priority for him that we see each other a lot. Like, if either of us is going away for a few days we make sure to spend extra time together beforehand.

    Post # 4
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    6256 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: March 2014

    We live in different states, so we only get weekends together. So, once a week? But we spend Friday night-early, early Monday morning together.

    Post # 5
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    628 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    We see each other on weekends and once during the week.

    Post # 6
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    153 posts
    Blushing bee

    We don’t live together, but he lives 20 miles down the road, and will be moving in in 3 months.  He gets here friday night about 7-8PM, stays till the same time Sunday evening, and also spends wednesday nights here.  So we’re seeing each other 5 days out of the week which is pretty great, even if thursday mornings barely count.  Monday and Tuesday are the only days we don’t see each other.

    Post # 7
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    2224 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    1-3 x a week. I wish we could live together 🙁

    Post # 8
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    544 posts
    Busy bee

    We hang out on Tuesdays, Thursdays, Friday & Saturday afternoons/evenings, and then Sunday mornings.

    It’s a good mix of together and alone time.

    Post # 9
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    529 posts
    Busy bee

    We see each other Tuesday, Wednesday and Friday OR Saturday nights which are the nights that I don’t have my kids but every other week he has his son so we don’t get alone time. He lives 30 minutes from me so it makes it challenging if I forget something or I have errands. I wish we could move in together but with the kids doesn’t seem right for us before marriage (no judging anyone who chooses to do that though!). So we have at least 2 more long years of doing it this way.

    Post # 10
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    1762 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    We live together I see him everyday Laughing

    Post # 11
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    292 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @Omgbunnies:  We can’t live together either because of a dog thing.  But it makes me appreciate our time together.

    Post # 12
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    1481 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2015

    I see him on average of 4-6 times per week and we spend the night together every time we see each other, so that’s nice. We would like to move in together soon, but I told him no living together before engagement (not a religious thing, obviously if we’re spending the night together lol, just an I don’t want to get stuck in a “playing house” thing that I’ve seen happen a lot)

    Post # 13
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    3668 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    Every day – we live together. It’s the best, especially two years of living on separate continents and only seeing each other twice a year!

    Post # 14
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    218 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I didn’t vote because we live together but don’t really see each other every day. We have very different schedules – I work 8:00-5:00 and sometimes later, he works 2:00 – 11:00pm. So, when I wake up and go to work he’s still asleep and when he gets home from work I’m already in bed. I guess we see eachother, but the other is fast asleep – so it’s not quality time or anything. 

    Luckily, his schedule changes next week! For the first time in five years we’ll have a similar schedule – I’m not sure what we’ll do!

    Post # 15
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    676 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    We live together but we work opposite shifts so we don’t get nearly as much time together as we would like. Like this morning he got home from work, came in the door and handed me the keys and I was out the door to work before it even closed from him coming in. So we may technically see each other every other day but as far as real quality time together or as a family(I have a 4 year old) it only happens 2-3 times a week if that.

    Post # 16
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    1330 posts
    Bumble bee

    We live together and work together. We try to keep out of eachothers space throughout the day, but its hard. Two years of this, no killing each other, yet!

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