- 6 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
You might think I am crazy, but I have four children that I want to include in my wedding. All four are kids that I babysit and have been a huge part of my life. I am having two little ring bearers (brothers ages 2 and 4) and flower girl who is 6. I am having trouble coming up with a job for the other little boy that seems as special as the other jobs. He is 8 and I originally thought he would be a perfect usher/ program hander outer, but after talking to him about it, I found out he is pretty nervous about the job because he is shy and doesn’t want to have to talk too bunch of strange grown-ups. Having been a shy kid myself, I cannot bring myself to make him talk to any adults if he doesn’t want to, but now I am stuck trying to figure out what other jobs he can do. He is incredibly smart and mature, so he can do a lot, but I want him to feel like his job is just as important as the other kids. Does any one have any thoughts or suggestions on what he can do? Also, I know I am a crazy person for having so many kids, but I am totally prepared for whatever shenanigans they might get into.