(Closed) Judgmental much?

posted 6 years ago in 20 Something
Post # 3
2448 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

As the wise proverb goes, haters always be hatin’.

Post # 4
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

You are nice if I had a loser from highschool sending me a message I wouldn’t even respond. Who cares what he says, he’s a random nobody to you. I do find it funny that someone who doesn’t even know you had the nerve to even say that to you!

Post # 5
2831 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Ughh I would not have even responded. You handled yourself well though. I don’t understand how some people refuse to grow up.

Post # 6
3121 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I wonder how long he’s been in love with you….?

Post # 7
83 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I have had guys contact me on facebook saying innapropriate things like “hey sexy” etc when they know i am engaged and i delete the idiots off of facebook – far out some people are so F*%$KED when it comes to marriage – they have no idea what it means and get jealous that they are single  and others are happy and have found the one. let them live in their sad pathetic world.


Post # 8
1093 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@atlbride2013:  haters always be hatin’

Couldn’t have said it better myself!

Post # 11
524 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Mars62312:  Hahahha this was totally the first thing I thought! In a previous relationship I had some weird guy facebook message me to tell me I didn’t know what love really was and I shouldn’t be dating this guy 😛 Turns out he was in love with me himself. 

Also, people sometimes use the internet to say stupid things that they can’t say in real life because they’d get smacked or otherwise told to stop 😉 Definitely don’t worry about him: though it does make a hilarious story!

Post # 12
553 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@Mars62312:  YESSS my thoughts exactly

Post # 13
379 posts
Helper bee

Oh my gosh that was such an incredibly awkward convo lol!

Post # 14
6360 posts
Bee Keeper

if he was contacting you to hit on you, you have to understand the fact that you told him you’re just about to get married, rather than go to the club with him next friday night as he hoped, was a bit discouraging… and he lashed out a bit.


… I had at least two “so proud to be single I need to post about my pride in being single daily, and a weekly contradictory post about how love hurts so much” long-term aquaintances on fb (one male, one female) who posted some particularly hostile sounding vague status updates for 2-3 days after my fb status changed to engaged. Think they’re pretty much back to normal now though, but yeah, sometimes it can be a gut check for single long-term aquaintances.

Post # 15
738 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Guys are so lame. I had a guy who really broke my heart freshman year of college give me similar attitude via text messages right after I got engaged.


Then I had another guy who dumped me through facebook tell me he was happy for me. He’s still single.


*shakes head*

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