(Closed) Judgmental?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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1271 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I think you should look within yourself and discover what you feel forgiveness is. You rcalling is to forgive as you have been forgiven. However, that doesn’t mean that things can be the same again. So it’s more important to your spirit that you truly forgive her than that you two wind up together. But forgiveness still might lead to a breakup because of your standards.

Also, knowing the details might make it worse for you. Right now, you can only imagine. Sometimes it’s best to imagine without knowing the true depth of something. For example, we know that people can be put to death by hanging. But do we need to see the details of the neck snapping and the strangling, the soiling of the pants, etc, to understand what a hanging is? 

So I just think that if you know exactly what the girl did, you will probably get more upset about it and it’ll be harder to let go of. 

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