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July 9 brides, how nervous are you?

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    MapleBecky    July 9, 2011   Canada

    I'm starting to get REALLY nervous.   Not about the marriage but about the wedding itself.  I have done most of the planning alone and I have no idea what I am doing.   I'm not feeling ready, I cry easily and am worried about that, and the thought of all those people looking at me makes me feel self conscious.

    I know it will all be okay and it will be great, I just can't believe how nervous I am!

     
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    MrsMcGyro    July 9, 2011   New York

    @MapleBecky: Feeling the exact same way! I just want it all to go well!

     
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    MapleBecky    July 9, 2011   Canada

    I broke down and cried today.  I am so overwhelmed.  I have been doing most of this on my own and don't know how I am going to get it all done.  I'm not even enjoying this stage.

    FH and I talked tonight and I am feeling better.  My MOH arrives tomorrow and my friend who wants to do the decorating should be all moved into her house and ready to help on Thursday.

     
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    MrsMcGyro    July 9, 2011   New York

    Hang in there! You're almost there!

     
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    MamaHusky3    July 9, 2011   South Jersey

    i'm right there wit ya!!! i've had help though and my nerves are coming from my paranoia that those who are helping me will set things up the way i dont want or the way i hadn't envisioned.....i'm telling them but they are acting as my day of coordinators and i will be tooo busy being the bride and cant set up everything myself....i keep thinking, how will they know where to put this sign? what if they don't put this on that table? bleh bleh bleh.......yikes! i'm so nervous things wont be were I want them to be.....oh well....

     

    3 more days!!! :-D

     
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    peaches13    July 9, 2011   Texas

    Umm, it's 11 am and I wish I could be drinking.  But that's really more about my family coming into town than anything else.

     
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    spoonful    July 11, 2011  

    hi ladies. I'm a july 11th bride (yes, monday!) and I completely share your nervousness. every morning when I wake up, my stomach is in knots. The thing that makes me the most nervous is when I think about all our guests' expectations for what the wedding will be like... we're not doing much traditional stuff. I just hope I can sleep the night before!

     
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    MamaHusky3    July 9, 2011   South Jersey

    @spoonful: omg i kno what you mean! this is another thing thats got me nervous.....my whole family is used to potluck styles weddings where its laid back and kinda like an indoors bbq.....i feel like they are going to get there and think who's wedding is this? :-/  i hope i can sleep the night before also!!

     
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    MapleBecky    July 9, 2011   Canada

    I'm sad that I don't have a lot of time to visit with my family either.  They're all in town and I haven't even really seen them.

    I hate the comment people are saying "Don't worry about those little things... it will all be fine and no one will notice them."

    I get what they are saying but I need some of these things to be done, definitely.  And the other things, they are obviously important to me to be doing at the last minute, I obviously want them done!

     
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    spoonful    July 11, 2011  

    @MamaHusky3: if I'm really jittery the night before, I might try exercising or something to wear myself out... then hopefully I'll sleep out of pure exhaustion! haha.

    @MapleBecky: I know, that type of comment bothers me too... because I care about the little things, even if no one else does.

    good luck tomorrow, july 9th brides! have a wonderful wedding :)

     

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