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June 2011 RSVP Count

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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    Hi Ladies!! June is less than 2 months away and I know that a lot of us have sent out our invitations. I've been watching the May RSVP count thread and I'm interested to see what the June numbers are looking like! We just started to get ours back so I'll start! I'm planning on updating either once a week or once every 2 weeks once it starts slowing down. I'm only counting the people who have sent back RSVP cards as yes's.

    Date mailed: April 2

    RSVP date: May 6

    # of invitations: 106

    # of guests: 202

    RSVP Yes (number of guests): 12

    RSVP No (number of guests): 0

     
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    Prewitt    June 19, 2011   England

    I'll come back to you when i've added them up.

    I'm annoyed just now, as definetly two invites weren't delivered, possibly four as i'm waiting to hear from two other people. I've just rang Royal Mail and have now got a compensation form to fill out. Aargh I hate the thought that people have opened my invites and seen all this personal info about me.

     
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    shellzbellz    June 4, 2011   NJ (getting married in Louisville, KY)

    I saw the May post and wanted to do this too!  Good idea!

    Date mailed: April 4

    RSVP date: May 4

    # of invitations: 80

    # of guests: 156

    RSVP Yes (number of guests): 2

    RSVP No (number of guests): 0

     
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    Ramble10    June 11, 2011   Peterborough Ontario

    This is such a great idea!!

    Date mailed: April 4

    RSVP date: May 11

    # of invitations: 80

    # of guests: 160

    RSVP Yes (number of guests): 54 - peope keep giving me a verbal yes but I'm not counting them until I get the RSVP!!

    RSVP No (number of guests): 4 - but I knew these before the invites even went out

    I did my RSVP's by email.  I was super hesitant at first but I love getting notifications on my phone - much quicker than the mail!!  I think a few of mine might have gotten held up somewhere also :(

     
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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    @Prewitt:Oh I'd be annoyed too!!! Let us know how it turns out!

    @Ramble10:Wow you have a lot!!! I never thought of email RSVPs, you definitely saved a lot on postage (we put stamps on the return envelopes and gosh it added up!!).

    I love checking the mail and getting new RSVPs!!

     
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    lindz629    June 2011  

    Date mailed: March 28

    RSVP date: May 2nd 

    # of invitations: 90

    # of guests: 178

    RSVP Yes (number of guests): 40

    RSVP No (number of guests): 0

     

    I love checking the mail! We've had so many 'yes' responses  from people that I was SURE wouldn't be able to come.  It's so exciting!  We were anticipating around 100 people actually attending (we figured some people wouldn't be able to make it as it's a Friday wedding, or people would come but not bring a guest)  We know for sure certain people can't come, but I'm starting to think we may have way more than our initial 100 estimate!

     
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    helenberrycrunch    January 1, 1992  

    I don't even remember how many invites we sent

     

     
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    futuremjm    June 25, 2011  

    I love checking the mail every day.  We have at least 1-2 response cards each time!  So far we have:

    Date mailed: April 7

     RSVP date: May 18

    # of invitations: 110

    # of guests: 220

    RSVP Yes (number of guests): 44

    RSVP No (number of guests): 3

    I really need the no's to keep rolling in!

    oh...and someone actually wrote in "+ guest" on their response card! So far I'm rolling with it, but if space becomes an issue I'll have to deal with it!

     
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    EleanorRigby    June 2011  

    @futuremjm- wow, your guests are pretty prompt with the RSVPs... I hope ours are too.  I can't believe someone wrote "and guest"... people are so weird.

     
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    Prewitt    June 19, 2011   England

    Date mailed: March 17th

    RSVP date: April 20th

     # of invitations: 28

    # of guests: 60

    RSVP Yes (number of guests): 23

    RSVP No (number of guests): 2 (My Dad and his wife)

     
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    JennBug89    June 11, 2011   North Carolina

    I sent mine out a week ago and I've only got ONE RSVP back...I keep checking the mail and being disappointed :(

    Date mailed: April 4

    RSVP date: May 5

    # of invitations: 97

    # of guests: 180

    RSVP Yes (number of guests): 2

    RSVP No (number of guests): 0

     
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    Elarissa    June 18, 2011   Toronto

    Yay I can join now because we just *finally* sent out our invites!

    Date mailed: April 11

    RSVP date: May 18

    # of invitations: 66

    # of guests: 156

    RSVP Yes (number of guests): 2 (sent FIs parents invites early as they are out of province and wanted to see the invites before they went out)

    RSVP No (number of guests): 0

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    I got married June 2010 and I miss the invite responses pouring in :) So much fun!

    Enjoy ladies!!! And don't be suprised if you have to hunt a few people down who don't respond/respond late!

     
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    mrsawesome09    June 5, 2011   Madison, WI

    Date mailed: March 26 (lots of out of town guests!)

    RSVP date: May 9

    # of invitations: 112

    # of guests: 210

    RSVP Yes (number of guests): 30

    RSVP No (number of guests): 8

    It's so exciting to check the mail and see those little envelopes sitting there! Slowly but surely they're coming back.  Like a few of you, we've gotten some more verbal yes', but I'm not counting them until the RSVP card comes back.  I hope we don't have to call too many people! =)

     
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    jaguar    June 11, 2011  

    @Prewitt: I have had the same problems with Australia Post. The invites went out two weeks ago and I only JUST got two envelopes RTS (& ruined!) - furious, as the addresses are perfect - it's lazy postmen!

    Date mailed: March 22nd

    RSVP date: May 1st

    # of invitations: 67

    # of guests: 116

    RSVP Yes (number of guests): 35

    RSVP No (number of guests): 6

     
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    futuremjm    June 25, 2011  

    oops - wrong date!  i didn't send mine out that early!  It was March 25th!! total brain fart.

     

     
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    bride2bejc    June 25, 2011   Live in Jersey City, Wedding was in NYC

    oooh this is exciting!

     

    Date mailed: April 4

     RSVP date: May 15

    # of invitations: 64

    # of guests: 114

    RSVP Yes (number of guests): 20

    RSVP No (number of guests): 0

     
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    ms.guitar.    June 25, 2011   TX

    Date mailed: March 26

    RSVP date: June 1 (a lot of our guests our out of town/state so we wanted to give them plenty of time)

    # of invitations: 150

    # of guests: 310

    RSVP Yes (number of guests): 45

    RSVP No (number of guests): 15

    Hoping for some more no's but we'll see.  I had them all sent to my parents' house so I only get to see who's coming every other week or even 3 weeks at a time, not good planning on my part.

     
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    Prewitt    June 19, 2011   England

    For the bees hoping for more no's, watch Father of The Bride when Steve Martin is counting the RSVPs and when he finds out someone has died so they can't come he gets excited. It's a funny sketch and one you could so relate to.

    ;)

     
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    JennBug89    June 11, 2011   North Carolina

    @Prewitt: Favorite movie EVER!!  I may just have to go watch it now ;)

     
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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    @Prewitt:You have inspired me to go rent that movie!! I love it!

     
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    shellzbellz    June 4, 2011   NJ (getting married in Louisville, KY)

    Ooh so I posted yesterday, with 2 replies, then got the mail yesterday and woohooo a ton of cards!  I hope there are a bunch more today.  I was also surprised by how many people wrote little notes on the rsvp.  I've never done that, haha.  It's so nice to read though, so I guess I will in the future!

     
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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    @shellzbellz:Yay for replies! A lot of people have been writing little notes on ours too and I love it!

     

    We got our first No RSVPs yesterday and, even though we need people to say no to hit our numbers, they made me sad!

     
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    jaguar    June 11, 2011  

    I'm getting really sad by the no's - but at the same time, we kind of need them as well. It's a lose-lose!

     
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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    @jaguar:I'm glad it's not just me! Last weekend when we hadn't gotten any No responses I was getting worried and telling FI how scared it made me but last night when I was opening them I was just so disappointed haha

     
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    asunw    June 10, 2011   Southern Illinois

    I'm so glad other people have been getting so few no's yet.  I was like, 'we are going to set a record if people don't start saying no, lol'

    Date mailed: April 1

    RSVP date: May 1

    # of invitations: 104

    # of guests: 244

    RSVP Yes (number of guests): 43

    RSVP No (number of guests): 2

     
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    JennBug89    June 11, 2011   North Carolina

    So I just did this 2 days ago, but I've gotten a ton of RSVP's in the mail the past couple of days!!  I guess all that complaining worked, lol.

    Date mailed: April 4

    RSVP date: May 5

    # of invitations: 97

    # of guests: 180

    RSVP Yes (number of guests): 21

    RSVP No (number of guests): 4

     
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    stranger1    June 11, 2011  

    I was just telling FI tonight that we were still waiting on 18 RSVP cards from his side!!  Ahhh!

    Date mailed:  ~March 20 (forgot the exact day, but it was late March)

    RSVP date: April 29

    # of invitations: 58

    # of guests: 117

    RSVP Yes (number of guests): 58

    RSVP No (number of guests): 2

     
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    blondie_6547    June 18, 2011   Nebraska

    Mailed out the invites on Saturday and today we got our first batch of RSVP's. Exciting

    Date mailed: April 9

    RSVP date: May 18

    # of invitations: 217

    # of guests: 393

    RSVP Yes (number of guests): 25

    RSVP No (number of guests): 0

     
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    ariel    June 25, 2011  

    This is so fun!

     

    Date mailed: April 9th

     RSVP date: May 15th

    # of invitations: ~90

    # of guests: ~160 (I'm afraid to count them! lolol)

    RSVP Yes (number of guests): 9

    RSVP No (number of guests): 0

     
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    jaguar    June 11, 2011  

    I've only had ONE RSVP this week. Disappointing, people!

     
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    caitertot    June 20, 2011   Denver, CO weddingin Seattle

    Date Mailed: April 4th

     RSVP date: May 20th

    # of invitations: 65

    # of guests: I don't even know, afraid to count, probably around 130

    RSVP Yes (number of guests): 10 (only 3 invites though)

    RSVP No (number of guests): 2

    It is good to see other people aren't getting quick responses! I also did e-mail RSVPs. I really want some "no's" because I don't want to have much over 100 people.

     
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    Ramble10    June 11, 2011   Peterborough Ontario

    @Runnin Elley  I really was against the email RSVP until my step mom convinced me it was the way to go  - I still love getting mail but this way I can get excited all day long!!

    I still haven't gotten a single NO and to be honest I"ll be surprised out of who is left if I get too many of them eek - I guess 160 it is!!

     
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    thewheelsonthebus    June 25, 2011  

    Date mailed: April 15

    RSVP date: May 27

    # of invitations: 77

    # of guests: 197

    RSVP Yes (number of guests): 0

    RSVP No (number of guests): 0

    I'll come update once they start coming back in :)

     
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    waffle    June 5, 2011  

    Date mailed: April 5

    RSVP date: May 5

    # of invitations: 66

    # of guests: 130

    RSVP Yes (number of guests): 61

    RSVP No (number of guests): 0

     
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    licelot13    July 16, 2011   boston

    i think i gave them way too much time.

    sent on april 5 = about 55 inivitations

    due on may 21=received back  about 15 of them

    Everyday i look in my mailbox, and they are coming one at a time; the funny part is that ppl from RI, NY and NJ got it before from NH, now keep in mind i live literally 5 minutes from Salem, NH! :)  postal office! and they complaint when they cut their funds! lol

    i'm so antious, why can people tell you yes or no?  is not like all my guest are CEOs that work 24/7! shm!

     

     

     
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    bride2bejc    June 25, 2011   Live in Jersey City, Wedding was in NYC

    Date mailed: April 4

     RSVP date: May 15

     # of invitations: 64

    # of guests: 114

    RSVP Yes (number of guests): 35

    RSVP No (number of guests): 0

     

     

    ---I have a feeling that almost EVERYONE will show up! I just had my bridal shower yesterday and the guest list was 44...40 people came!----

     
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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    Any updates???

    We have been getting RSVPs pretty steadily in the mail. We've gotten at least one back per day for the past 2 weeks! I'm glad. I was really worried that our families wouldn't find it necessary to respond LOL.

    As of today we have 50 YES (# of guests) and 20 NO (# of guests).

     
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    thewheelsonthebus    June 25, 2011  

    Our first one came back today :)  I hope there's a lot more by the end of the week for the first little burst of them!

     
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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    @thewheelsonthebus:

    Isnt it exciting???? :)

     

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