(Closed) just An Update

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

Aw poop. I know what that’s like. Mine’s saving for an apartment and various technological gadgets lol But he also just got a car and decided on buying used form a person rather than used/new/leased from a dealership to save some money. 

Post # 4
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Busy bee

I hate when SO makes a big purchase, I always think “there goes my ring!”

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@impatientlywaiting20:  I’m right there with you. Lately though and I don’t know how I got him to do this, (sorry I wish i knew the secret. lol)  I got him to start asking me if it was alright if he could buy something big. I.E he wanted a $300 RC car.

Post # 6
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Busy bee

@Batsygirl:  Thanks for the thought! I really can’t complain much, we don’t live together and his finances are very much in order so when he chooses to spend his money on things he wants I don’t really mind. I just know how much he hates to go into debt so I just assume that means my ring is getting pushed further back. A ring definitely isn’t a priority to him like it is to me lol! In fairness to my SO the last purchase was a camper for all of us so I just have to stop being so selfish. It’s not easy though!

Post # 9
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Busy bee

@Alaric2012:  I don’t think that is a small thing at all, I think it is pretty huge actually! I am way to chicken to do that but maybe I should be braver and go for it 🙂

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