- 8 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
First I want to start this off by saying I have some fabulous BMs who are very excited to help me plan my wedding and have been an awesome support system to me for many years now. But there is one girl in particular who just somehow manages to push every single button possible. Whenever I think of her I think of Zazu from The Lion King saying, “There’s one in every family sire. Two in mine, actually. And they always manage to ruin special occasions…”
Whenever I tell her something about the wedding that she doesn’t like, she rolls her eyes at me. It’s DRIVING ME CRAZY. Personally, I would love to just not talk wedding with her, but everytime she sees me she initiates the convo and then rolls her eyes at me when she doesn’t like what I’m doing!
Most recent example: I’ve already asked her (in person) to be one of my BMs. I am also having 2 MOHs. They both live far away and I haven’t seen them in person yet. They know they’re in the wedding, but they don’t know they’re MOHs yet because I was trying to think of a cute way to tell them. (Hell I’m not getting married til 2012 so there’s plenty of time to think about it!) SOOOO yesterday she said “Did you ask them to be your MOHs yet?” Me: “No… not yet.” Her: *eyeroll* Me: *sigh* “I ordered these cards online with photos of us on the front and then a cute little note inside, but they haven’t arrived yet. I will mail it to them and that’s how they’ll find out.” Her: “You didn’t get me a card!!” Me: *???* “I asked you in person. They live far away, so I can’t ask them in person. I would have preferred to do that, but a card will have to do.” Her: *eyeroll* (Oh and here’s the kicker. I DID order her a card when I ordered the Maid/Matron of Honor cards and it just hasn’t arrived yet!!!!!! The Bridezilla in me doesn’t even want to give it to her now, but I know I will. 😉 )
This is just one of many examples of her rolling her eyes at me. I really don’t know why she is doing that. It’s just really starting to push my buttons and I just want to yell WHYYYYY DO YOU KEEP ROLLING YOUR EYES AT ME?!?!?!
Oh and my mom is throwing my Fiance and I an engagement party for immediate family and the bridal party. I told my Bridesmaid or Best Man (as a heads up) and her response was: “Ugh. Do I have to buy you guys a gift now??” Uhhhhhhhmmmm!! No! Of course you don’t, (and I told her that no she did not have to bring a gift) but do you really need to say it like that??? That one just rubbed me the wrong way and kinda put in a funk.
Blah, I know I am being bridezilla-ish, but I really needed to just get that out in the air or else I will end up screaming at her. Any advice on dealing with a difficult Bridesmaid or Best Man would be appreciated too. 🙂