(Closed) Just another BM vent

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2588 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

SO annoying. Tell her to quit her shit–you don’t need someone who’s supposed to be supportive of you rolling her eyes at everything you say. Tell her her attitude sucks (because it does) and you would like to know if there’s a bigger issue or something that’s bothering her.

Post # 4
281 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

You totally aren’t being brizilla-ish. She’s not being very respectful. Has she always rolled her eyes at other things not related to your wedding? If not, perhaps she’s jealous?

Post # 5
1872 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

This girl has figured out that the eyeroll makes you uncomfortable and therefore permits her to dominate you and the conversation and make you doubt yourself. It’s good that you recognized it. You can confront her as Statutory Grape says (although be prepared you’ll likely receive…another eyeroll), but also remember this in your head–just be aware of when she does it and then slow your thought process down. Recognize what it is, how it affects you, and mentally say you yourself, “Oh there she goes, rolling the eyes. Stay calm.” It’s really disrespectful and irritating, but just relax and keep your chin up and then you’ll remember that you don’t need her approval at all.

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