- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 2013
I am so sick of hearing “OH you can’t do that you’ll offend your guests.” I am not having the wedding to please and grovel at my guest beck and call. I am having it to celebrate the love my FI and I share. If I don’t want to invite the distant family and there 12 children that have been nothing but judgmental and critics in my life then I won’t invite them. If they have a problem send them my way I will tell them how helpful they have been demining me because I wanted to go to college. I can’t afford 200 people I know my budget and honestly if they haven’t been a big part of my life or my FI’s life then they are not going to celebrate the joining of our lives.
Same goes with all you other brides this is your day who you choose and what you choose is YOUR choice. If you want to have paper plates do it! If you want orange and purple do it! If you want no kids great! If your friends and family judge you GREAT because that means they are PERFECT and they never do anything “tacky or offensive” right! Chances are you are not going to please everyone so just please yourself.
I am tacky and I am proud of it!!!