- 4 years ago
- Wedding: November 1999
Let me start by saying that DH is normally a very considerate and kind man. He genuinely adores me and I couldn’t ask for a more loving partner.
That said – I am REALLY PISSED at him right now! I made tentative plans to grab lunch with my dad, his wife and DH this afternoon because they were all close by. They KNEW I couldn’t leave until my coworker returned (there are only 2 of us in this office) and suddenly I get a text from DH saying that he was grabbing a hot dog at the cart outside my office with my dad and stepmom. He asked if I wanted one and I said … Uhm, no. I was under the impression that we were going to get FOOD.
Long story shorter – DH ate with my ‘rents RIGHT OUTSIDE MY BUILDING while I was stuck in my office and he didn’t even come up and say hi to me because he was in a hurry to eat and had somewhere to go with my dad.
WHAT THE WHAT?
This hurt my feelings. I’m quite sure that DH did not in any way MEAN to hurt my feelings. But it did and I’m being particularly snarky to him now because I’m mad and I’ve even told him WHY I’m mad. I feel like if he was across the street he should have at least popped in and said hi and given me a kiss before wandering off to finish his day!
Am I being unreasonable that this bothers me? Would it bother you if you worked different shifts as your SO and you could SEE them eating across the street and didn’t come see you for a moment KNOWING you couldn’t leave to come see them??
I know I’m probably acting like a big baby – but right now I just don’t care!