Weddingbee boards

Hi June bees!  Just wanted to see if you're hangin in there.  For some strange reason, I'm really calm!  In fact, if one more person says to me, "Why aren't you freaking out yet?", "Omg, how can you be cool as a cucumber?", or, "What on earth are you doing at work so close to the wedding?"... I'm gonna lose it.  I feel like they want me to look like this:

Anyway, whatcha got on the agenda?

I pretty much only have to go to the rehearsal, get my nails done, wrap gifts, and not kill anyone.  Good stuff!

Yay!  Four days is like.. nothing!  I don't think its possible to avoid all stress but it sounds like you have it all handled, that's so great.  I hope you have a wonderful weekend!!

@amandagrace- I have NO idea how I've maintained my composure.  Its really strange!  But, I do just keep telling myself that everything will be done, and everything will work out.  Maybe that's the trick!

@ella- hiiii :)  Yes, I've finally recovered from my weekend, thanks for asking!  It did take me a couple days though, I'm getting old!  Jeesh.  Anyway, you're in really good shape too.  That's great!  The stuff you have to do, are you gonna finish it this weekend? 

@ley ley- that's exactly how I feel.  I've scratched a couple small things off the list just because it wasn't gonna work, and I'm ok with that.  No one is going to focus on that stuff, they'll never even notice it missing, so why should we stress it?

I've realized today though, that I have mentally checked out at work.  I'm done being productive.  Which isn't good, its not intentional, but I'm so distracted!  And everytime a client calls then wanna set up an appointment for next week, and I'll be like, "Sure, no pro.... no wait, that won't work".  It seems so strange!  It hasn't completely hit me yet I guess.

@rugulach- Ah!  Get some of that stuff done silly :).  Its all totally do-able, so don't stress it, just give yourself a deadline for each thing and don't go past the deadline.  I'm usually a procrastinator (like in college, fuggedaboutit, the ink was still wet when I handed my papers in) but with this wedding stuff I'm so unlike myself.

@ella- Makes sense, I wouldn't have any room for cookies either!  I hope you have lots of helpers, it will make the process go quicker.  I have been kinda packing for the honeymoon since June 1st lol, but we still need a lotta stuff!  We'll hit the stores on Saturday.  Oh, breaking in my shoes!  I forgot that part.... oops!  How are you doing it?  My FSIL said to wear thick socks and walk around in them, I'm gonna try that out.  Unfortunately the shoes are at my Mom's where the wedding is so I can't do that until Monday night when I get there.

@Ella- I thought I was the only one that wrote down outfits to pack!  My FI thinks I'm insane, but hey!  How else are you gonna be sure you have the right number of outfits and you're covering all bases?  Jeez! 

@Sage- that stuff is no fun but you'll get it done with and feel so relieved.  Will you have time this weekend to conquer some of it?  This weekend is my last so I'm going to be (or try to be) crazy productive!

@Rgeddy- Good luck!  I hope you have a wonderful wedding weekend.  The stuff on your list is so easy so I hope you continue in this zen state of mind.  It will all be done and it will all turn out great!

@thefuturemrsgibbs- I hope you were able to get some sleep!  I'm so sorry you had a breakdown!  But everyone is entitled to have a moment, as I call it.  I'm happy you're feeling better.  Here's wishing you a GREAT wedding! 

Yeah, my outfit list isn't that elaborate either!  Haha

And if you can leave early- do it!  What's the point of staying if no one's there?  I wish I could!  But my boss wants to take me out to a late lunch as a 'pre-wedding gift'... wth is that?  She doesn't even like me!

@ley_ley- exactly!  If it doesn't get done, oh well.  Chances are the things that don't get done aren't important enough to stress anyway.  I know once I get to my Mother's house, the town where the wedding will be, and where all of the wedding crap is, is when my list will grow.  Because no matter how much you try to prepare for things, you are always forgetting at least a couple things. 

@Ella- you're soooo lucky!  I'm stuck here til 5.. then I have to go to the gym, then to Michael's (aka my second home) to find labels for my placecards because the idea of writing them all out and making them look nice is the scariest thing ever!  And when I get home, I'm gonna be a madwoman doing a bunch of lil things.  Ah!