Post # 1
Before I ask this question, it is in no way to attack anyone so please don’t answer hatefully! I’m just curious. Ive seen alot of gorgeous rings being posted with hairy knuckles, and I’m just wondering if anyone else cares about making sure that the hairs on the knuckles are plucked or not when wearing their e-ring?? Or is this something that isn’t even an issue?? Again, I’m just curious and NOT bashing anybody 😀 plus I’ve seen pics posted with chipped nails, chewed nails and outgrown manicures, I’m beginning to think I’m the only one who cares about how my nails look with my e-ring and feel a little relieved that I don’t have to keep them in perfect condition like I feel like it should be! Just wanted opinions, that’s all 🙂
Post # 3
I personally don’t believe anyone should do anything to their body unless it’s because they want to…so shaving knuckles isn’t an expectation I have of ANYONE.
As for the biting and hangnails etc…I used to bite. And have worked really hard to stop…for almost 2 years. And it still takes a lot of work to keep them from not breaking…they break constantly…and I can’t seem to get the area around the nail to stop from peeling…but it’s a work in progress. So on that aspect…I wouldn’t assume biters aren’t trying or don’t care… it’s very very hard to stop biting your nails.
Just my 2 cents 🙂
Post # 4
I normally wax mine, but I haven’t recently. And I bite my nails, so, meh. I plan to kick that habit before the wedding. One step at a time.
Post # 5
@jenilynevette: My cousin works in beauty lol…or whatever…and she gave me this nail stuff called Nail Tek and it’s supp to help make your nails stronger…like way better than the hard as nails stuff. I recommend it if when you do stop your nails are brittle. 🙂
Post # 6
I shave em. I’m not big on painting my nails unless it’s date night or another big event because the process is sadly difficult for me!
Post # 7
I definitely care how my nails look with my ring, but I cared before I had the ring too. I have very very light hair on my fingers, so I don’t worry about that.
Post # 8
@icetea: Awesome! I’ll have to get it. I had stopped for about 6 months a few years ago. Then I started a new job at burger king and broke EVERY NAIL opening bags of chicken =/. I was so angry! They were SO brittle. And they grew funky.. like upwards?!
Post # 9
Just thought of another sitch…if you work at Starbucks you aren’t allowed to wear nail polish 🙁 My FSIL is always frowning about that!
Post # 10
@Jazmynju: Daily, I do not do much to maintain my nails/hands. They are generally fine, but I have never had a manicure and I only occassionally paint my nails….I don’t value it enough to spend the money or the time on them. I only trim/clip them for the most part.
I also do not shave or wax my knuckles. Why? Because the hair will likely come back thicker and I will have to do more to maintain. Besides, you rarely notice hair on people’s knuckles unless it is an up close picture.
Post # 11
I have always had hairy knuckles, and I never noticed until I posted my first ring picture how hairy my knuckles were compared to other women’s fingers. After I noticed, I got embarassed about it and tweezed my fingers (took all of 10 minutes) so I’m not self-consious anymore. I never knew that it was weird to have hairy fingers.
Post # 12
My hair is also extremely dark, thick, and course, so it was pretty prominent.
Post # 13
@Ellyson: You tweezed them? OUCH!!! Did you at least ice them before to numb it?
Post # 14
Ive ALWAYS cared about the way my nails look and usually have a fresh polish on. I did this before I had my ring as well though. As for the knuckle hair, its not an issue for me as mine is very light 🙂
Post # 15
I don’t have a hair knuckle issue. But I also don’t get many manicures. I usually do my nails myself since I got married (I used to get manicures at least once a month, but not anymore). I don’t care if my nails aren’t polished when I’m wearing my rings, but my nails are always filed nicely and are never chewed up or anything. That has nothing to do with my rings though, just personal hygiene.
Post # 16
Everyone’s got hair on their knuckles and if you’ve got a good enough camera you can make your finger look like an appendage that looks like it belongs to a cross between an elephant and a gorrila.
I sincerely hope this is NOT actually causing women to feel insecure about their “hairy knuckles” and causing them to pluck them, etc! If your knuckles are not hairer than your FI’s, they are NOT “hairy”! They are normal!
And if your fingernails aren’t always perfect… it might be because you used your hands to do something productive lately! It’s pretty hard to keep something in mint condition all the time AND use it to the full extent of its abilities.
Let’s not get too carried away with being critical of ourselves here ladies! Is our life goal to die with our bodies in “mint-in-box” condition?