Just curious, after reading this description would YOU marry this guy?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
288 posts
Helper bee

She needs to run. Very fast. In the other direction.

Post # 4
2419 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I would never marry someone who told me what I could or could not do with my money or what I could eat. I had an eating disorder due to a man when I was in my late teens and I will never allow a man to dictate that.

I would also never marry a man who was already legally married to someone else.

I feel pretty terrible for this person.

Post # 5
3570 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

uh no… he sounds very scary.

Post # 6
2792 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I have seen this relationship before.  Unfortunatly, as outsiders, we have a much better perspective than those in the relationship.   Sounds like he is abusive, and she is taking it. 

Post # 7
290 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

I wouldn’t marry him based on that description, but then again I’m not like her… since I wouldn’t be with someone that tried to have control over all my decisions.

Post # 9
2562 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Hey, it’s her choice – not yours.

Have you SAID to her that you think her relationship is toxic?
Because she probably doesn’t even see it.

It sounds to me like this girl needs a big boost  to her self-esteem and that guy needs a good blow to his ego.

Post # 10
3836 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@Galang_Gyal:   All red flags there – he is controlling her.  Anyone can google Toxic Relationship and see how trapped she is.  Men like that are good at what they do, and pick their victims carefully.   I hope she will wake up and see what is happening.  

Post # 11
8483 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

He sounds scary and extremely controlling.

Post # 12
2565 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Well, I didn’t even have to get past the first point to know my answer.  Is someone told me to end my relationship because God told them they would be my husband I would be running for the hills…

The rest were awful too, that is not a healthy relationship.

Post # 13
5697 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

THis just can’t end well… 

Post # 14
2385 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@Galang_Gyal:  Sorry, but once I got to “he’s already legally married to someone else” I thought there’s the nail in the coffin right there! The other things are bad enough and controlling and could become abusive quite easily, however him being married already is enough of a reason, imo, on it’s own to call it quits… 

Post # 15
154 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Whoa. I read no. 1 and was like, meh. Some women/men are like that – will jump from one relationship to the next. The God thing? Not my thing either… But the rest… !

People will fuck it up for themselves if they want to. They’re adults and they will make their own mistakes… You can’t do anything.

Post # 16
737 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Galang_Gyal:  I would not want to marry him but I know people that have been in the same boat and tried to warn them and they thought they knew better than everyone else. 

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