Just curious – be honest :)

posted 3 years ago in Married Life
  • poll: If my husband cut his hair after I just told him I wish he wouldn't cut it...
    I wouldn't care at all : (101 votes)
    40 %
    I would be hurt and feel like my opinion didn't matter : (35 votes)
    14 %
    I would be slightly upset : (107 votes)
    42 %
    Other : (12 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
    294 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    If my FI did that (not husband yet) I’d ask why. For example, my FI HAS to cut his hair to see FMIL because she complains like none other. So while I do like his hair long- if he has to go see her in the next week, then that’s totally a good excuse why.

    I voted “other” 

    Post # 4
    3268 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    @isthisreallyreal:  I would be annoyed and a bit disappointed, but it wouldn’t be a big deal. It’s his hair, after all. 🙂

    Post # 5
    2184 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2011 - Florida Aquarium

    Eh, my husband knows I prefer it longer… But he still gets it cut monthly. It’s his head, so it doesn’t bother me. 

    Post # 6
    11772 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2013

    When I compliment his hair length, DH knows it’s time to get it cut.

    I like it when it’s long and lush (and by “long”, I mean like 2-3″ from scalp to tip). But he thinks that looks shaggy! So he generally keeps it like 1-2″.

    Post # 7
    8850 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

    I’d probably be a little bummed and like “what did I just tell you?!”, but I also think that he probably didn’t connect what you were saying with his actual haircut.  

    At least my husband wouldn’t.  He thinks of them as very utilitarian, like the shorter they cut it, the longer he can go until his next haircut.  I had to ask him several times before haircuts to “please leave it longer on top, I really like it like that!” before he started remembering to do so.  (And of course, if he actually cared about his hair, I wouldn’t be all demanding.  But he doesn’t really.)

    Post # 8
    1689 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    meh… hair grows back. I get annoyed with my DH when he doesn’t cut his hair haha. I prefer his shorter. But I would never get angry with him or hurt over it..just hair 🙂

    Post # 9
    3280 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I could care less, it’s his hair.

    Post # 10
    6467 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @isthisreallyreal: Luckly, I’m the one that cuts DH’s hair. I’m the one telling him it’s time for a hair cut. I don’t like it too long like 1-2 inches is fine. Sometimes he reminds me and so on. I think he is the one that may get upset if I forget to cut it because he not a pusher.  

    Post # 11
    4540 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2014 - Royalton White Sands

    I’d be a little disappointed, but that’s about it. It’s hair. It grows.

    Post # 12
    5697 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Hmm. Id probably be slightly annoyed but I wouldn’t take it so seriously as to feel like my opinion didn’t matter. Guys have hair preferences and that doesn’t mean we follow them!

    Post # 13
    5207 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I don’t know. With us it’s always the other way around.

    Post # 14
    1403 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2014

    It’s his hair.  He can do what he wants with it.

    Post # 15
    8720 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I dont think I’d care. I do what I want with my hair no matter what he says so I have no room to say anything to him.

    Post # 16
    545 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    His hair, his choice. Just like its my hair, my choice. Even if he asked my opinion and did something different than I suggested, it wouldn’t bother me. IT’S HAIR. There are far more important things to care about in a marriage. 

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