- 4 years ago
- Wedding: September 2014
Hey bees. I am not going anonymous on this post, because I just don’t give a rat’s behind who sees this! As the title said, I had to cuss that heifer (future sister in law) out. This just happened. Let me give you some back story.
She and I were once so close that we decided to all live together. STUPIDEST IDEA EVER! I live with my FI, son, her and her husband. Her kids are not always with her because she basically gave her ex-husband whatever he demanded so she could marry her current husband which was a genius move. I hope you can smell the sarcasm coming from your screen.
Since she has been here and paying half the bills (her current hubby ain’t got a job) she has been a nightmare. She thinks she is queen of the house, which is what I told her. I cussed her out, deep and hard. I wish I could say I feel bad, but I do not. She has been rude, attempting to control FI and I, touching my personal items (even threw some things away) and sends everything she has to say via text. SHE IS UPSTAIRS! Really, you can’t take the two seconds out of your busy schedule (she is a non essential federal employee, so yeah real busy) an speak to us like a freaking human being?
I called that heifer EVERYTHING in the book. TO HER FACE. It felt soooo good. Seriously, it was almost orgasmic. She was stunned at some of the things I said. She also cussed right back. We verbally went toe-to-toe. She is not the only one who can yell, and she learned that today. She has been asking for a war and I gave her one. She is a disrespectful, spiteful woman.
I bit my tounge so long for my FI. He did not stop the argument. He is tired of her having him go back and forth between us. I was tired of keeping my mouth shut, too. If you don’t stand for something you will fall for anything. I really am praying to move (please pray for me also) because I do not want to have to go another couple of rounds with her. The lease is up and we can leave January 1.
I am a happy-go-lucky kind of gal. You would never know some of the problems I have had in my life because I don’t stay down for long. Due to her poor choices she is miserable (her husband thought she was acting up before he moved in, he was in another country for the first 7 or 8 months) but that can’t be the excuse now. She has made poor choices in life, but that has nothing to do with my FI and I. She can keep her misery to herself.
I am sorry for the length of this! I just want to know what you guys think I should do about the wedding. Do I not bother to invite the b*tch and her husband? She was supposed to be a bridesmaid, but that of course is no longer happening. By the way, she has been crying and complaining about me to their mom and sister. She is trying to get them on their side, and if I don’t invite her they may not go. I mean I will miss them if they do not go, but I kind of don’t care. If they are so silly as to take sides between the two then they will just have to miss out on seeing my FI get married. Thanks for reading!