(Closed) Just dont know

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
485 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Sorry you are going through this.  Congratulations!  You need to find new friends.  Find yourself a support system who can help you plan your dream wedding.

I would also find a new job.  why work around someone (your mother) who is constantly unsupportive and not happy for you?

Life is too short.

Post # 4
3847 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2004

@3xaCharm:  1000000% what you said.

OP, life really is too short for this crap.  You deserve to be loved and supported and encouraged, not made to feel like that.

Post # 5
23 posts

Would it help if your fiance, your mother, and yourself and talk it all out? I think it is wonderful that you have cut those people out of your life. I understand the not fitting in… I have always wanted to be married and my friend just want to party and drink. I am 19 so I understand that comes with the age. It just goes to show how strong of a women you are and how smart you are. I also think you have to help your mom understand that this man is going to be in your life no matter what (because of the child.) At least he is being a man and not leaving you and wanting to make your love stronger.

Post # 8
23 posts

@Ana0890: Your mom has to understand that he is not the same as he was in highschool and the fact that he wants to get married is incredible! She should see that this a wonderful step and it takes time for people to grow. 

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