- 6 years ago
- Wedding: April 2019
I probably should go anon for this but anyway, here goes.
I always initiate sex, he never does, and the rare times he does is only after I explain how upset I am about him not initiating. But then he just stops initiating again til the next time I have to bring it up. And often if I suggest we do he says he is too tired. He is slightly overweight but still it is really frustrating.
For Christmas he had a party at his house and he and I both wanted to have sex after, but he got drunk and was too tired. Then the next day he was too hungover to. Nice underwear doesn’t help, when I put it on he kisses me for about five seconds then goes to watch tv or something.
And countless times I have brought up the issue of oral sex. I do it to him for ages, he rarely does it to me, and when he does it is only for about a minute, then stops.
It just makes me feel like I want him more than he wants me, it makes me feel undesirable to him. Help :'(