JUST FOUND OUT IM PREGNANT. NEED GUIDANCE/HELP EVERYTHING IS CLOSED

posted 3 months ago in Relationships
Post # 32
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5278 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2016 - Lola's Trailer Park

Goodluck bee! You don’t owe anyone an explanation of your choices other than “because I want to”.

You seem like a smart woman witha good head on her shoulders, you’ll get through this.

Post # 33
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Helper bee

confusedbee1234567 :  Good luck bee! I also agree you don’t anyone an explanation. I’ve had 2 abortions at different stages in life, and I don’t regret them, as they were the best decision at the time. I am now almost due with my first child with my husband. Like you, I had similar goals and the partners I had at the time were relationships full of issues. I’m now in a good place in my life, in a stable relationship and am excited to start a family. You will have that also. Best of luck! It’ll go smoothly I’m sure! And that’s great that you have some support, I had my best friend accompany me to my procedures, it helps to have someone there to support you. 

Post # 35
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Buzzing bee

confusedbee1234567 :  

I just want to offer support. I give you ALL the credit in the world for making such a difficult decision so rationally and so responsibly! 

 

Post # 36
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2090 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2017 - Outside in Paris

confusedbee1234567 :  the fatigue is normal. Take care of yourself Bee!!

Post # 39
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5278 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2016 - Lola's Trailer Park

confusedbee1234567 :  Goodluck! You’ll be fine. They do this sort of thing all the time, every day. You will be in good hands.

Post # 40
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2924 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

confusedbee1234567 :  Bee.   Nausea is a totally normal symptom, as is fatigue, but with all this stress and worry, you’re probably not helping yourself out on that front.  Take some deep breaths.  This WILL be worked out.  You’ve taken the steps that you need to.  You sound like you have a very good head on your shoulders, and you (and your BF) are dealing with it in a calm, mature way.  You need to take a deep breath and take a step back.

Post # 42
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5984 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2016

confusedbee1234567 :  well, if nothing else be glad that all this is confirming your belief that you’re not ready to have a kid with him and join his family.  Even though it’s clearly the right decision for you, it’s  a tough one–at least they’re not making it any tougher. 😛

Good luck tomorrow, I hope it goes as smoothly as it can.

Post # 43
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2265 posts
Buzzing bee

confusedbee1234567 :  take a deep breath. You’re going to be ok, and you’re going to be able to sort this out on Monday.

start by calling Planned Parenthood to see if you can get in there this weekend.

if not, call your OBGYN or GP and leave a message saying you have an urgent matter you need to attend to. I would actually get up early on Monday and call at 8 am, which is when most medical offices open. If you call at 8, you can get a same day appointment that they reserve for emergencies. You’ll get your physical and referral, and depending on your state you may be able to get the abortion pill there or you might have to get in to an appointment in a few days.

 

its not too late. You will be able to get this abortion. Just breathe and be calm.

Post # 44
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6665 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

justwondering2015 :  Read updates. She’s way past the advice you gave and already had an appointment set up.

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