(Closed) Just found out my honey has stage 4 pancreatic cancer, now what??

posted 5 years ago in Wellness
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Just want to say that I sincerely hope that everything will be alright. I haven’t been through this, so I cannot give you anything but good wishes. Be there for each other.

Post # 4
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Oh no! I am so sorry you are going through this:(

start living life as if its your last day, life is short

i had a biopsy so traumatic and painful and it turned out benign so I hope you get similar news!!!

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

I have not gone through this myself with my SO having a serious illness, but I just want to say how sorry I am. Stay positive and supportive, he is going to need your strength, love, and kindness now more than ever! I wish nothing but a happy outcome and that your fiance has a quick recovery.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Oh goodness, I’m so sorry! I just want to send you a big hug.  I pray that the biopsy is benign.  I had to go through that last year with my dad and it’s the worst experience ever. So i’m sending prayers your way.

 

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

So sorry to hear your news… hugs…  thinking of you and I wish you strength.  Love him and be kind.

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

Oh goodness. You have my deepest sympathies and I hope that the initial diagnosis was wrong.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I have gone through this…I rather not say how though.  It was stage 1 and was a one in a million chance of finding it.  All I can say is research doctors and find the best ones.  The person I know is healthy now and been in remission for 3 years this November.  Good luck sweetie.

Post # 10
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m really sorry to hear that. I’ll pray for you, so you and him may be strong. May God keep you serene, and He bring your honey his health fully restored. Hugs and many, many prayers in this period of tribulattion.♥

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I am so sorry! You and your SO will be in my thoughts and prayers! Like one of the other pp’s mentioned…make sure you research your doctors and find the best possible!

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m very sorry to hear what happened. Only thing I can say is that I hope everything goes well and that you should research his condition on the net.

My fiance’s aunt had a brain tumor. By the time they caught it, they said she had a month to live. Her husband looked into alternative medicines and gave her things like vitamins, tea, chinese herbal stuff, and a whole lot of other things. Between vitamins and herbs and medicine, there was a point where she took 70+ pills a day. 

She didn’t survive for a month — she lived for about 3 years. Eventhough she passed, it was a miracle she lived that long. We believe she lived that long because of the herbs and teas she had, so I think it’d be really beneficial to look into that stuff. 

If herbs helped someone who was supposed to live a month, I’m sure it can help anyone.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee

Im really sorry to hear about this diagnosis.  How are you managing?  How is he?

Please come back for support.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I’m so very sorry about this tough time in your lives. Definitely not something anyone should ever have to go through.  I sincerely hope things work out for the best.  Research and treatmeents have come a LONG way with cancer, so there’s definitely hope for him to beat this. Stay strong!

 

Post # 15
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Bumble bee

*hugs* Stay strong honey. Thats all you really can do. My aunt was diagnosed with breast cancer shortly after SO and I comitted to each other. She actually called me during a date and told =/

But now, about a years before the wedding she is in full remission! I hope you quickly get the same (remission) news!

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - An amazing non-profit retreat

Oh hon, I am so sorry you’re going through this! Cancer is such a beast 🙁 I knew a guy who was diagnosed with end stage cancer and they gave him 6 months. Years later, he is healthy and he and his wife have a baby boy. It was the power of positive thinking and alternative therapies. Look into it. There’s so many options out there now.

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