(Closed) Just found out through facebook that someone i didn’t invite is coming…

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Whoa what??  That’s crazy!  Can you have someone call him up for you?  Say something like “hey dude, I hear you’re going to this wedding on Saturday.  Who’s your date?”  Is it possible that someone you invited is bringing him as a guest?

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Umm… that’s really annoying!! I don’t know what to tell you. If he has a date, I’d assume it’s someone that is actually invited to your wedding… but who knows!

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Since he is a friend of your sisters, I’d honestly have her deal with it. You are stressed out enough with your upcoming wedding. Tell her to let him down gently and tell him that unfortunatly he wasn’t invited because it is a small wedding and the seating chart and catering is all done.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@Jenn- I’d be more specific than “who’s the lucky lady” because if for some reason it isn’t someone that’s already invited…he’ll think it’s ok if he shows up uninvited with a date.

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

if you said “Hey I’m excited, whos the lucky lady” or something like that – then you really can’t get out of him coming IF he wasn’t invited by someone who was already invited.  I’d definitely ask your sister to talk to him about it, and say unfortunately you didn’t know he was attending and all the arrangements have been made.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Soon2beeMrsM: sorry, just realized I said almost the exact same thing as you 🙂

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Assuming, he’s not going with someone you invited as a guest, this is just ridiculous.  I don’t understand people.

=)

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Glad it isn’t going to be a weird situtation with extra guests!

Good luck on Saturday Jenn!!

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