Just got engaged! But it need some help to love my ring!

posted 3 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
9859 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Sunshine_icicles:  First of all – WELCOME!

I think it’s a gorgeous ring!  Before you make any decisions about it, I would wear it for a little bit, you’ve had it for 3 days – look at it, love it, appreciate it – if you still don’t love it after a month (and after it’s been sized) then consider making changes.  Remember that you’ll have a wedding band to go with it too – that can change the look of the ring as well!

Post # 5
2355 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I also think it’s gorgeous.

Post # 6
30 posts
  • Wedding: November 2014

@Sunshine_icicles:  I think it’s really pretty!! I also love that its unique. I agree you should wear it for a while. Also agree that a wedding band can really change the look so maybe try it on with some? What specifically is bothering you the most? It’s possible that its a really simple fix– if it’s still bothering you you can always inquire when you get it resized!

Post # 7
37 posts
  • Wedding: June 2014

I think your ring is beautiful and unique! I actually really like the rose gold stems. I think that once it is sized and it fits you better it will be like a new ring! See how it feels after it gets sized. That can make all the difference! And congratulations!!!

Post # 8
1172 posts
Bumble bee

I think it is really unique and I like it a lot. But you have to. i agree, wear it a bit before suggesting changing it since he spent a lot of time picking it out. You might come to love it. 

Post # 9
97 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 1994

@Sunshine_icicles:  Speak up soon, especially because he might be able to return the setting if it is still within its warranty.  Just ASK him if he’d be okay with it.  He can’t fault you for not having the exact same taste as him.  If he says no, be prepared to live with it though. 

Post # 11
221 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

@Sunshine_icicles:  I’m sorry you don’t “love” it right now, that’s too bad. I know it isn’t worth much, but I really like your ring! I think your FI has great taste if he picked it out alone. But I totally understand wanting to love your ring! I love mine, so can’t judge when other ladies want to feel the same way. Best of luck on whatever you decide to do in this situation.

Post # 12
5087 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

I really think it’s pretty. 


Post # 13
8282 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

What about getting the rose gold dipped white? 

Post # 14
1261 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

wow….I think it’s amazing!!! My e-ring sits up high too….I think I agree with some other posters….you have only had it a couple days. Get it sized and I bet it will feel more comfortable.


Post # 15
3352 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

It is freaking stunning. There, did that help? 🙂

Post # 16
789 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I love it!  The top heavy thing can be irritating, but have your finger sized a few times and make sure you order it down to the right size and that will help the spinning. I also agree with the PPs who mentioned a wedding band changing the look and feel of it.

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