(Closed) Just gotta vent for a sec…I'm really upset :(

posted 5 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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255 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@SweetMelissa429:  Maybe, she is trying to hide something.  They are trying to keep all of it a surprise and when you start asking questions, they could start lying.  Just an idea, I know I come up with some really stupid excuses when I am trying to keep from blowing a surprise.  

Post # 4
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724 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@SweetMelissa429:  Is it at all possible she could be pregnant but it’s too early to announce?  That’s just the first thing that comes to mind for me.

Post # 5
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7796 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@SweetMelissa429:  I wouldn’t worry too much. She’ll be there for dinner and the “naughty gift” giving back at the hotel, that’s a fair portion of the night. I say enjoy it with those who want to be there, rather than stresssing about someone who doesn’t want to be there.

Post # 6
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7241 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

@SweetMelissa429:  Siiigh. I’m sorry. That’s really disappointing. I have no suggestions except to try and have fun with the people who are there. πŸ™

Post # 9
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7796 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@SweetMelissa429:  I think it’s a weird arrangement to say to never go to a club ever. BUT if a couple make an agreement or have certain boundaries, then they shouldn’t break them just because it’s a bachelor/bachelorette party. And her relationship with her husband is more important than her relationship with you.

I agree it’s poor of her not to plan a party and leave it to the BMs, but like I said above you’re better enjoying the last part of the night with girls who want to be there. It seems like your relationship with her as “best friend” has changed since she married. It sucks but it’s more her loss than yours.

Post # 11
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7241 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

@SweetMelissa429:  You have every right to be hurt and sad. It sounds like your sister dropped the ball with planning, which sucks. If she had done something to make sure the parties happened, she would have probably planned something she could be a part of! I think her agreement with her husband is a little weird, but maybe they both get out of control in those situations and they had to make that arrangement. I’m sorry it’s making your bachelorette less fun, though. πŸ™ Try to enjoy the time you have with her and have fun with your other maids! It can still be a great time. 

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