just had to let it out… (kinda long and dumb)

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 4
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1625 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@omglauren:  Aw, babe! I totally get it and have done that same thing before.I think giving him space is good, and if you don’t bring it up again I’m sure things will be fine and normal between you two! 

Post # 5
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8905 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

@omglauren:  Hopefully he understands that everyone gets upset over stupid stuff once in a while.  DON’T keep harping on it though!  

But really, he said you were dumb and annoying?  That would bother me more than the other stuff, x1000.  You guys should have a talk about fighting fair.  Even when we’re super irritated at each other (which has happened a lot over the past 13 years!), we have a rule to never make personal attacks/insults…

Post # 6
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9412 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@omglauren:  I guess my first question is, why wouldn’t he want to watch it with you? Had he already seen the episodes you wanted to watch? I would be annoyed if FI didn’t want to watch it with me too 😛

Also, I don’t think you are unjust to be upset that he called you dumb and annoying. That is absolutely not okay and I would be really upset too. You can be mad at someone without insulting them!

Post # 7
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2372 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - B&B

Aw don’t be too hard on yourself! This sounds like one of those things that sucks a lot right now, but that could blow over pretty quickly…

Also, my FI and I are ALSO watching SOA (looooooooove it) and we are apart…we watch it together on the weekends 🙂

Post # 8
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6504 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I would have been upset too. I hate it when people sugar coat things instead of just being blunt so I usually get upset when people do that. And if I had AF as well… I probably would have been crying lol. That being said I can see why he is a bit annoyed as well so it’s a good thing you apologized. Just give him a big hug tonight and don’t bring it up again.

Post # 10
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2111 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

@omglauren:  I used to get like that on my old birth control. It made me crazy during time of the month….or in between times of the month…it just made me crazy. The one I’m now doesn’t really affect my emotions which is really nice. I hated being that way. FI and I almost broke up so many times while I was on it, not even funny. 

Post # 11
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3394 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@omglauren:  Well that sucks. Sometimes I’m my own worst enemy too. At least you know what the problem is. I cry pretty easily during PMS. You’re not alone. 🙂

Post # 12
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8905 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

@omglauren:  ohhh I see, much better!  When I’m just PMSing, I warn my guy so he’s hopefully more understanding, and then just try extra super duper hard not to give in to the craziness.  Good luck!

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