- 7 years ago
- Wedding: January 1991
Well, I just posted how much I hate wedding planning. And I realize that I’ve been a jerk to my mom for a while… so I talked to her and apologized. I have been visibly nice to my bridesmaids, but with all the planning I didn’t want them to feel under-appreciated. So I just wrote them personal messages and sent them in the mail a few minutes ago! When I was a bridesmaid I was never mailed anything, or even e-mailed anything for appreciation. So I’m excited and hopeful that they will really understand how much it means to me that they are in my wedding.
Have y’all ever done this? I think it’s a good idea to go old school and mail out appreciation. I know it’s normal after the wedding, but beforehand is nice too. After writing how much they mean to me, it’s made my day better—just realizing what I have. I feel better about planning this wedding 🙂