- 5 years ago
- Wedding: December 2012
I guess I shouldn’t be surprised given their track record, for those of you who have not heard the full story here’s the link…
So we got married on New Years Eve with a small crowd of just 8 people on my husband’s side,none of my friends or family came, it went well considering we only had 3 weeks to plan for it, plus I did all my own hair and make up. We decided on a spur of the moment event for many reasons – issues with my family being one of them.
I’ve barely heard from my sisters, all they could bring themselves to do was write a very generic comment on my Facebook wedding photo like dozens of my aquaintances have, no personal message to me or announcement on their page. They probably only did this because they felt obliged to, it does seem really forced, and honestly the remarks were so generic and wishy washy it was the equivalent of something a work colleague would have written, it was an insult and I wish they hadn’t bothered. Sister #1’s boyfriend of 11 years also knows full well I got married yet didn’t acknowledge me on Facebook or otherwise dispite going on the site numerous times to post his own pictures and comment on other peoples. Sister #2’s best friend has also been on Facebook but has not acknowledged my marriage either, she has been a friend of the family for nearly 10 years. I am guessing she must have something against me too due to having her mind poisoned, either that or the fact that I got married just wasn’t discussed in front of her! 🙁
My Mum posted an announcement on her Facebook page about our marriage being a great start to the year, a lot of people have clicked ‘like’ but my sisters have not. Makes me sick because they always crow about their acheivements and broadcast each others. They have never ever celebrated anything I’ve done, they never even do anything when it’s my birthday 🙁
Hello, I have just got married!!! Is it me, or is this a major life event??? They are just ignoring me and my marriage. I am so angry right now, they are an absolute disgrace. I sit and wonder why they treat me with such contempt. I wish our mutual friends knew what they are like to me, and what I have to deal with.
What hurts is picturing how life should be – if you have sisters they are almost always your main support during a wedding, right? I feel slightly bitter than I never got that, plus the fact I ended up doing my own hair and make up with no help. They are vicious and spiteful, the way I feel right now I don’t ever want to have to see them again.