Post # 1
Sigh, feeling frustrated with my Fiance lately. He is dragging his feet on everything I’ve asked him to do. I have to beg and plead with him to get anything I’ve asked him to do done. What have I asked him to do??
Write about his groomsmen on our website (Had to beg for over a month it finally got done)
Ask a groomsman!!! Yes we are getting married in THREE months and he has not asked one of the groomsman. The original pic had to back out bc of a really important work related thing, we total understand. And he knew who he was going to ask immediately, yet he still hasn’t asked. Swears he is going to do it tomorrow.
And that’s it I haven’t asked him to do anything bc, why bother??
It really hurts my feelings I’ve tried to explain that to him, it makes me feel like he does not care about our wedding. I just don’t think he gets it. I just wish he would get over not getting it and do it because he knows it is important to me.
I guess I can’t complain too much because I have been assured by everyone I know who is married “oh you guys will fight so much while your wedding planning” and we really have not fought at all.
Post # 3
The sentence where you said “I really don’t think he gets it” is probably exactly the problem. Sometimes men just don’t understand the importance of all the details. Even the big ones.
Post # 4
i understand…i tell fiance to talk to his groomsmen bout their measurements and when they are flying in…. fiance and one gm came up with a story to tell me…. gm said he was flying in thenight before wedding. will be picking up his suit at 430 if his flight was not delayed and will be at church at 5pm for rehearsal… fiance was waiting for me to blow up and freak out bout his friends message to me.. i didnt because i am DONE with dealin with his buddies… they are ALLL procastinators and keep telling me not to bug them til june. so june it will be when crazy asian bride zilla comes out. lol..
Post # 5
@asianyoushi: Oh wow, I would be beyond mad if a groomsman talked to me like that. So would my fiance! He would not allow that as at all! Although I will say we have one groomsman who cannot attend the rehersal! Because he is in another wedding across the state on that night! Jeesh.
Post # 6
i have met 4 of the five grooms men. fiance warned me that the fifth one has a jokester personality so i dont think we will jive well.lol. the ones i have met are really laid back but im REALLY OCD anal in some aspect of life and i think thats why im having major issues with the GUYS in the party…
Post # 7
@ames12708: Maybe try making him a list. I had to make a big to-do list for myself anyway, with check boxes next to each activity. So I made one for him too, and brought them both home to hang on the fridge. I think when he saw that my list was like 50 things and his was 7 (SEVEN THINGS!!! WTF! haha I wish I was the groom), but I was still checking my things off faster than he was, he got his act together. Next thing I knew he was at Men’s Wearhouse getting the style numbers for everything his groomsmen would have to wear and sending them all the information. I think he liked getting to check off his little boxes.
Now lo and behold his list is nearly complete and I can’t think of a thing to b*tch at him for 😉