(Closed) Just over all of it… all of it

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
8042 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@mayflowerbride13:  You need a vacation, girlfriend.

I’ve been following your posts for months and I can’t say I blame you for being drained!!!

Post # 4
624 posts
Busy bee

Yes I agree – I think you need a little break away from wedding planning.  It is one day and I can tell you however wonderful it is there will be other amazing days in your life!

You shouldn’t be getting so worked up and unhappy because you won’t enjoy yourself and you run the danger of coming back down to earth with a huge thud after the wedding!

Take a little rest then post all your details here for us to peruse – a few compliments from the lovely bees will go a long way towards making you feel much much better!

Post # 5
3720 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@mayflowerbride13:  Take a break… have a glass (or a bottle) of wine, and then go to bed by 9pm. If you aren’t tired, have more wine (and water to prevent a hangover). Then when you wake up run, go to the gym, do something. It helps reduce your stress.

The best advice I got about wedding planning is that it is one F***ing day. Who cares if you love your dress? How many days in a month do you love the dress you are wearing? How many days a month do you think your hair or your makeup look absolutely amazing. It is just one day, so don’t worry about it.

Also, I am not sure of your financial situation, but if you are comfortable, I recomment my FI’s, can you throw money at it? approach. How much would it cost to fix your sash/accessory problem? Is that much worth it to make you feel better? If so, and you can afford it, spend the money.

Post # 6
5967 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

@mayflowerbride13:  This happens to us all, in whatever times we live through, every woman gets to a point where she just HATES everything around her….and it’s not a reflection of dissatisfaction or unhappiness…you just wanna hate on some stuff for a while…the only is cure is something completely new, frivolous and possibly expensive…I find that a new handbag with matching shoes does wonders for me when I’m all grumped out, then I’ll go to my stylist and say, “I hate everything about my hair…dooooo something with it.”  which he does, and then I treat myself to a day at the spa…at which point I finally begin to feel like my old self again…do something, anything, but for the love of god…not wedding stuff, you’re all full up in that department

Post # 7
108 posts
Blushing bee

@Pollywog:  LOL…love your wine remedy


At Mayflower, is that your real wedding date? If so, no wonder you are stressed! Just step away from  all of it, even for 24 hours so you can look at it all again with fresh eyes. Also, I asked my fiance to help me decide when I was unsure of something. He was my biggest supporter 🙂

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