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just pain tired of it!

posted 2 years ago in Etiquette

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stlginkgo 3/20/10

I don't know about anyone else, but I am sick and tired of having to defend all of my wedding decisions. I am also totally done tip-toeing around everyone else's feelings.

FMIL: I am sorry that you feel as if you are losing your "little boy," but if you make one more backhanded comment towards me I will go off on your ass.
Mother: please stop taking out my sister's lack of wedding planning on me.
MOH: can you maybe for one second stop being so self centered? I do not want a spa day, I hate people touching my feet, I don't want people to feel like they have to spend a crap ton of money on me, and please dont put my old drunken escapade stories in your speach--its innapropriate. Oh and ps yes I am irratated that both showers you came to you left early (i.e. after 30 min)and didnt bother to let me know of your plans until the DAY OF
other engaged sister: start planning your fing wedding! its in 4 months!

I seriously am done playing nice. grr

2 years ago

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littlemissmoo July 18, 2010 London, UK

Big hugs. Two weeks ago I was where you're at. I just stood my ground and said "screw it" to everyone and have felt much better for it. Standing up for yourself it the only thing you can do at the moment. Don't talk weddings to anyone who might put you down and if anyone says anything about it just reply with something along the lines of it being your day and you're really excited to see how XYZ turns out.

2 years ago

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stephinPA October 29, 2010 Reading, PA

You are so close to your date and I have heard that the level of stress intensifies as the date gets closer. I do feel your pain though. I've had to bite my tongue on several occasions with my mom and my FMIL and FFIL. I'm sure the list will grow the closer my date get here.

Hang in there. Take some deep breaths! Stay strong.

2 years ago

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Tanya123

Aww, sorry. Hang in there. Almost done. :)

2 years ago

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verosara March 27, 2010 LA, California

Girl get it all out! Seriously it's hard to play nice when people just keep unloading on you and you're so close to your day, so vent, relax, take deep breaths, and enjoy your moment.

2 years ago

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SanDiegoAli September 18, 2010 San Diego

awwwww (((hugs)))

Don't worry, I think we all have "those" days where it just ALL gets to you. Hang in there - you're SO close now!

2 years ago

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fanatic888 10/16/10 Cincinnati

People seriously think it's ok to talk about your old drunken escapades? Uh oh. That's just wrong.

2 years ago

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kjpugs March 20, 2010 Indianapolis, IN

You and I will be having a PARTY on March 21 when it's all over!!!! I am so sick of FMIL's antics I can barely wait til March 21. So sad that people drive you to dread what they'll do at your wedding, right?

2 years ago

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Bella13 May 13, 2009 Honolulu, Hawaii

Your MOH sounds like a beezy! I'm sorry :(
It feels nice to vent and get it all out I know! Tell you MIL to get over it! haha people are SO rude it's insane!

2 years ago

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