- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2011
You all just shoot me now!
I woke up from earthquakes in Japan and this nuclear disaster was raised to a level 7 from a 6 on the background news.
My husband his knocked out and sleeping on a separate bed because I damaged my back 2 weeks ago climbing stairs with heavy luggage during our self evacuation.
And our wedding scheduled for April 2nd was canceled due to all the drama in Japan.
Ok so I am trying to be positive and move on to happy days. And then there is that thing that is more stressful and more annoying than all the things above, MOM TRYING TO PLAN THE WEDDING FOR ME IN AMERICA.
Yep! That in itself is more intense than any of this above
So I wake up to all this and then I see my phone and my Mom is yet again telling me that I need to hurry up and confirm June so she can be “through with it!” I told her on Saturday my new schedule and it is now Tuesday. My husband hasn’t had time to discuss any changes with me and his family hasn’t had time to review their schedule. So I kindly asked her to hold off a few days. She is shouting, FINE! But if its gone, its gone and then there is nothing to do.
So I asked her why would the Gardens be gone? She says, “Not the gardens. I didn’t call them.”
Ummmm, Hello! I said I would like for you to call the gardens. She calls some place I have never heard of and won’t even send me pictures to see how it looks.
“Oh it has high ratings. 5 stars.”
Can I see pics?
“Their site is down.”
UMMMMM 5 STARS! NO PICS!
“So we have to do this on Thursday.”
Well my best friend in the entire world, I haven’t seen her in 3 years can’t make it on Thursday. She will be driving for 10 hours to come on Saturday. So can we call my places and see if they have a Saturday.
“What does she have to do with anything? Fine well this place will be gone. Thats all I got to say. I did my part. And having house guests(my husbands family she has never met) will make it difficult to have a reception here at the house. I can’t have all these people.”
whewww!!! But to top it off its the attitude of lets hurry up and do this because I don’t have time to waste trying to help.
Can you say I am ready to explode! I think I remember now why we just wanted to have a wedding in Japan.