Just Simply Complaining

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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42510 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@MissPumps:  People are usually willing to help but they often need to be asked to do something specific. “Can you come over one day and help me pack up the family room?”

Post # 5
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1749 posts
Bumble bee

Please don’t burden yourself with other people’s emotions when it comes to your wedding. They are adults, you shouldn’t have to think about their feelings so much that it’s like you’re holding their hands.  

Your friends who are single or divorced can manage their own feelings. As long as you’re not rubbing their faces in it, you’re fine. 

As for the family members who think the wedding is about them: well, they can think it’s about them all they want to, but it’s not. Don’t concern yourself with their opinions and what they want so much that you feel you have to listen to and consider everything they say. In most cases, that’s just not necessary.

Plan your wedding, and don’t allow anyone, even yourself, to make the process more difficult than it needs to be. 

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